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My ******* Stupid Family

well i was just down staires and my mum and my ******* dad are talking to me about my health and that i need to lose some weight and i am already 5.2 and i need to get to a size 0!  they keep on nagging me to ******* hell! i hate my family for instants:

My dad is a flipping **** and i ******* hate him he is so lazy it is unbelieveable also he just ******* shouts and shouts and he can never control him self!

My MUM IS A ******* ***** AND IS SOOOOOOOOOOO FAT SHE WILL NEVER EVER MAKE IT THROUGH THE ******* ROOM DOOR OR ANY DOOR SHE NEEDS RO LOSE SOME STONES MAN SHE IS LIKE ******* 4568 STONE 236 POUNDS! SHE NEEDS TO LOSE SOME WEIGHT BEFORE SHE BECOME A FAT UGLY UNATRACTABLE BEAR! ERRRRRRRRRRR I HATE MY LIFE SOOO MUCH THAT I WISH I WAS NEVER BORN AND BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD ALSO THAT WHEN MY MUM HAD ME I WAS ******* DEAD IN HER TUMMY!

nicole040396 nicole040396 16-17, F 56 Responses Oct 21, 2007

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Trust me kiddo, you're lucky. Your family is dysfunctional however they're in the funny range. You can laugh at them. My family is downright ******. Always trying to avenge each other for bullshit that started decades ago. It never ends. Trust me kiddo I wish I had foster parents. I mean in Canada foster kids end up well off. Orphanages always have the best facilities. I was so jealous of those kids. They always had the bigger tvs, sports equipment, latest nintendo console. I should have left now that I think about it. Family is gained wherever you go and blood isn't the thickest liquid. Just say your family is unfit to take care of you, show some scars and children's aid society will whisk you away. They get more funding and you get to play victim. And you as the victim are entitled to the best society has. It's the way to go. The internet knows best.

Well there is a saying you can't choose your family just be thankful that you have a family it's better than being homeless with no food! I promise things will get better for you. Bye

Don't even get me started. I have no brothers, six sisters, and I'm the oldest. Plus I'm a guy. To top it all off, I only live with four, but the four I do live with are ******* retarded. One is a *****, two are completely insane, and the last one is probably going to be some ********* or something. Just today when I was taking a shower she snuck in the bathroom and opened the damn curtain, so I said " What the ****! Are you stupid or something!" That's not the first time it's happened either. Next time I'm putting a restraining order on her ***. Two two psychos are even worse. They like talking about playing with themselves and ****. Just awhile ago they were spitting Gatorade in each others ********. The ***** is exactly it. She's thirteen going on thirty. She steals anything she wants too. I swear to God sometimes she needs a good hard slap to the face. Or maybe hit by a bus. The worst part is though that they get away with all that **** while I try to stay away from everything but still somehow get blamed. I'm only fifteen and on the brink of homicide.

what?

they always say that to me in a bad way .. they just keep laughing about my weight and they don't even think or try to help me .. it's sucks <3

I had that issue too.theyre trying to make you feel as crappy as they do so they can trick you into tearing yourself down dont let them do that too you.

**** hate em

I hate my ******* family thy r ruining my lyf..destroying my happiness by taking away the biggest drms of mine!!frst thy spoild my DRM of going abroad to persue my ******* studies,thn thy avoided my boyfriend from me..thn thy avoided my bff frm me n all thy ND is to say is that its all for my ******* gud,I don't get NY idea y thy say this ..does taking my happiness away frm me bring gud to me??I mean what d ****!!thy alwyz go potty mouth to others ab me...i hate em...i really do..am being tortured to death..thy evn haven't alowed me to tak my fav sub as main!!I really wish I wz dead thy evn dnt alw me to hang out wid my frnds!!**** em all..i realy wish I wz dead I can't tk thz fukn **** nylonger!!**** family!!**** u!!

I feel the exact same way about my dad, I hate him!!!

me too! everything is my dad's fault! i wish i had a different dad

hate mine too. cant wait to live on my own away from from them and not get in touch with them

I hate my family !!!!!

Parents a lot of the time are not fit to breed, just to have their selfish need met. I ******* hate the world they have brought me into and I hate them.

i ******* hate my stupid *** lesbian mom he **** shouts and shouts i didn't even do a thing im gonna punch her someday.

Yeah man i hate my family too same as now lets show those sons of ******* who is the ******* boss and give a piece of our minds!

I hate mines also!!

My family fight over money my mom has to pay500 a month and Dad is allways trying to **** my moms mood but astray fight my bro gets involve and begins to choos a side with dad I try to help mom but at the end they all end up mad at my and the proble is allways my fault I fuking hate all of them of they do t like each other them why did they marry and my bro is 20 hi can get out of the house end make his own live. **** all of them cuzz at the end they sleep in the same bed

Uhhh. I know my stupid ******* parents are always shouting at me. Ive got 2 ****** up sisters (they were abused in every way) and 1 brother which my mom and stepdad always give attention to. This morning I got out of the shower and my bro wanted some oats but I didnt want to make it cuz I was going 2 be late for school so my bro told my mom and then she shouted at me saying that I never help anybody and that she isnt gonna do anything for me . And she hasnt. Every day I get shouted at for something stupid!!! And my sister always lies about me and talks about me behind my back. I am being neglected. The only time we talk to each other is when we r having a fight. I hate my ******* family!!!

bo i feel u. i have annoying *** parents. they call me dirty n stupi, n useless. when im upset they dont care. they talk to me about how disrespectful i am and i will not get anywherein life with it. they want me to listen to them, when they use the same mouth to insult me. you know what my mom did one day, we were in the car *i dont remember how i pissed her off* but she started saying that my future career is at mcdonalds n my life will be ******(she didnt really say ******,but sh e was speaking in my language and the word relates to it*. my dad comes home everyday yelling at me saying im dirty, stupid, and annoying. when i answer their questions they tell me to shut up.i h8 those mutherfuckers so bad. i think about killing myself just to get away from them. i want to kill them all,so bad. but idc the only reason im not is because my friends.

I know how you feel. I'm not fat but my mother and sister share jokes at my expense. It's already too late for this to even be funny. My mum is also 60. I used to go to my room and just cry because I'm ostracised in my own house.

I know how u feel u r not alone their r other people like u me and more

i know how you feel.<br />
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i used to cry and get so angry (and i still do, but less often) about how messed up my family. for starters ~ <br />
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my sibs and i were neglected (no education period) until high school age so some of us succeeded but some failed bc it was overwhelming all at once to learn math and everything else for the first time playing catch up like that.... <br />
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we were neglected emotionally, mentally and physically as well. We lived in the middle of nowhere and all we had was each other and our abusive parents. Our biological dad left when we were little and my mom replaced him with another abusive guy who molested one of my sisters. my mom is a narcissistic and in my opinion, heartless person. She knew my step dad was molesting my sis and didn't stop him. she told her (who told my mom what was up at age 9) that "that couldn't have happened". Then, when i was 19, the bitty stole my identity (opened many cred cards behind my back, denies it to my younger siblings so they wont think she's crazy and thus, makes me look crazy, and let all the cards go to collections, leaving me to pick up the pieces of my ruined credit). In response, i was angry and let down, realizing she didn't care for me and expressed this to my siblings but they don't seem to think it's such a huge deal she did this to me and tell me in so many ways that i just need to forgive and forget but the thing is, had this happened to them, they'd feel they'd be playing a different tune.<br />
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The thing is, individuals don't choose our family. We don't choose what parents we're born to. It's luck of the draw. Some people have cool parents. Some have shady ones...like you and I do. The thing is that at the end of the day, regardless of who you come from, it's up to you to decide where you're going later in life.<br />
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Take this for example ~ i knew this guy who was "set up for success" in my eyes. His parents were wealthy and gave him whatever he wanted. They made him manager of the fam business although he really was never there. They gave him a brand spankin new cute truck. In my eyes, he was spoiled and all he did was party and do drugs. Still, he was a nice guy and would give me rides home a lot. This guy ended up passing away from an accidential OD on drugs in his early twenties. This guy goes to show you that it doesn't really matter how "set up for success" you are, really. It's what you do with the cards you're dealt.<br />
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You'll be okay. I can tell by the way that you write. You are smart and you are honest with yourself and these are important traits if you're to be okay. Just hang in there and don't give up on yourself. Know that you are worth more and that you can't change everything overnight but you will in time.

my parents are retards. they get pissed off at me if i get a B on my report card, they hate all my friends exept one who isnt really my friend, they just think he is. my brother is always getting more atttention, i am a swimmer, and so is my younger brother, i started at 8 years old, he started at 6. when he was 8, my parents said, "wow! look how much better you are than your brother when he was your age!!!". also, i cant have a phone till i can drive, however my brother will get one at the same time as me. I HATE MY PARENTS!!!!!

I can understand how you feel. I don't like my family either. My mom always turn me down in most of the conversations. She will use whatever I said to beat me up later.She said she will haunt me when she dies if I give anything to my Dad's family. It's good to stop talking to them now. I hope I can move out next year. What a relief!

I HATE MY F_UCKING DAD HE MESSED UP MY LIFE SO MUCH, I HOPE THAT HE DIES ALONE WITHOUT ANYONE WHO LOVES HIM. MAY HIS DEATH BE AGONIZING AND THAT HE UNDERSTANDS EVERYTHING HES DONE.<br />
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THEN THERES MY SISTER, FAT F_UCKING SADIST. SHE TOOK THE MOTHERROLE AND THEN ABUSED IT, SHE BEAT ME EVERY F_:UCKING DAY FOR 10 F_UCKING YEARS. I HOPE SHE LIVES VERY LONG AND GET A FAILED LIFE. I PRAY SHE WILL GET DIABETES AND HEARTATTACKS AND ALL THAT. I HOPE SHE GETS RAPED AND MURDERED VIOLENTLY. HOPEFULLY THE KILLER WILL TORTURE HER A COUPLE MONTHS FIRST AND TAPES IT SO I CAN LAUGH WHILE I WATCH IT

Jog on ****.

lol people<br />
think of it this way......if u had no family....where on earth would u guys have been? now.....if u think that ud be better off without a family.....then its ur choice but think of all the good stuff uve done with ur family. think of the love. Now think of urself. If u hate ur amily because of what they did to u and told u and u think that u dont deserve to be treated that way then, just look back at urself and ask urself..."me, today, am i perfect?" who knows...maybe u could be the worlds worst dad or mom or brother or sister to someone else and u still think ur good enough for the world. But guys lemme say when life gives u stuff, make the best outta it. im not judging, im just saying that maybe it could be urself u need to improve before u hate the world and all thats been part of ur world.<br />
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think positive,<br />
criticize urself before others,<br />
ull get there, where everyone has to reach sometime,<br />
PEACE<br />
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Prajim<br />
dude trust me i was in **** like yall up until a couple of months back. it took me ages to get rid of the ego and all the **** ive done, to understand whats around me better, after all the world around u and everything in it is a gift from the world itself! :D

I HATE MY PARENTS OMG! THEY ALWAYS MAKE ME WANA TO KILL MY SELF!and they ALWAYS till me u r suck,fail,stupid

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MY PARENTS ARE IDIOTS

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MY PARENTS ARE IDIOTS

i hate this ******* world..... and every person in it...... no one understands me.... but scold me for everythin... especially my so called parents..... this world is no place for people to live with their own will and wish..... have to live up-to the expectation of the surroundings and the relatives.... :@ y shouldn't i be my own self....

Dear Nicole, I was happy to read your article. Being a son of them you should not bother about all those things. Tomorrow you will also be like that. Dad and mom duty is to enjoy their life by doing such thing . It is quite common in some family. I have seen an incident where the family father., mother , one

I hear you there, me and my fanily always get to a fight. I could understand your feeling. I honestly don't want to live with them. I would rather to be an or the most isolated person in my family. I can't get along with them anymore. to me there's no point to share anything with them now.

grow up! all of you, grow up

grow up! all of you, grow up

my falmily too sucks dude.MJ is a good ans.....

my falmily too sucks dude.MJ is a good ans.....

my falmily too sucks dude.MJ is a good ans.....

my falmily too sucks dude.MJ is a good ans.....

MY *********** FAMILY IS SO MEAN THEY TREAT ME LIKE **** I JUST WANT 2 BURN THEM WHEN THEY R SLEEPING

cool story bro. have you tried telling them that you own a horse?

cool story bro. have you tried telling them that you own a horse?

same here man....i ******* hate my family too! nothing i ever do is enough and the always call me fatty, my bro makes show of pinching my fat!! it hurts man but you get used to it right? and ur not supposed becuase we're all perfect the way we are but we just not that perfect for our families...wat **** ups

I PERSONALLY KNOWS HOW IT FEELS TO HAVE A STUPID FAMILY, I'M 30 NOW BUT I STILL SUFFER FROM ANGER PROBLEMS AND ITS A WONDER I HAVENT HURT ANYONE OR BEEN TO JAIL. I WASNT ALWAYS A MEAN PERSON( IT TAKES A REALLY ****ED UP BUNCH OF THINGS TO MAKE YOU TRUELY MISERABLE. I'M BLACK AND IF FROM OAKLAND,CA NEEDLESS TO SAY LIFE THERE WAS HARD ENOUGH, BUT I HAD THIS OLDER BROTHER WHO I LATER FOUND OUT WAS GAY, BUT BEFORE HE CAME OUT THE CLOSET HE WOULD BEAT ME UP(i'M 6 YEARS YOUNGER) TORTURE ME WITH ALL TYPES OF ****ED UP GAMES HE THOUGHT WAS FUNNY LIKE HOLDING ME DOWN AND SPITTING ON ME, OR THROWING A THICK BLANKET OVER ME THEN JUMPING ON ME AND CLOSING IT AROUND ME SO I WOULD FEEL LIKE IM SUFFOCATING. MY MOM WAS LET ME SAY A WOMEN WHO WAS A VICTIM OF HER UPBRINGING, SHE WAS BEATEN AS A YOUNGSTER AND CALLED OUT OF HER NAME SO MUCH SHE THOUGHT HER NAME WAS BIT**. sADLY VSHE DIDN'T BREAK THE CYCLE SHE BEAT US, NONE OF HER MARRIAGES WORKED, MAINLY BECAUSE OUR FATHERS WERE DRUG DEALERS, DRUG USERS, OR EX-CON( GOOD JOB MOM) SHE FOUND RELIGION BUT THIS ONLY SATISFIED HER, I GOT NO PROBLEM WITH THAT BUT SHE DIDN'T TEACH US NOTHING, FORTUNATELY MY OLDER BROTHER WAS REALLY SMART OTHERWISE WE ALL WOULDN'T HAVE GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL(HE GRADUATED FROM A UC). MY GRANDMOTHER(MOTHER'S MOM) EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS MEAN VERBALLY, SHE ALWAYS HELPED MY MOM STAY AFLOAT IN LIFE, ALWAYS AN OPEN DOOR POLICY, AND I CAN REMEMBER HER GIVING HER WADS OF CASH MULTIPLE TIMES. MY MOM IS A BEAUTIFUL LADY BUT SHE ALWAYS HAD TASTE FOR DISGUSTING DUDES AND NO VISION FOR HER CHILDREN, SHE KICKED ME OUT 3 X'S BY 17 AND I'VE NEVER BEEN BACK. I SAY TO ALL YOU KIDS WHO STAY WITH PARENTS OR A PARENT LIKE THIS DON'T HATE THEM BUT YOU GOTTA DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU, UNFORTUNATELY FAMILY IS JUST THAT, IT DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY LOVE YOU OR THAT THEY'LL DO RIGHT BY YOU, SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE UNCAPPABLE OF TRUE CARE AND LOVE. IF YOU MUST DIVORCE YOUR PARENTS MAKE SURE YOUR SURE, BUT RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE FIXED FASTER THAT AN UNEDUCATED, HATEFUL, FRUSTRATING LIFE, SO IF YOUR FAMILY ARENT HELPING YOU FIGURE OUT HOW TO HAVE A SUCCESSFULL FUTURE THEN THEN THEIR NOT DOING THEIR PART AS PARENTS AND ARE FAILING BECAUSE LOVE IS IMPORTANT, BUT WE LIVE IN AMERICA AND LOVE DON'T PAY THE BILLS UNLESS YOU A PIMP, AND EXPECTATION WITHOUT GUIDANCE AND MOTIVATION IS STUPID PARENTING.

I feel you. I hate my retarded family too. All ******* retards!!

You have to pick your battles keep your answers short but polite. IE, inseadt of yup make sure you say yes and when you want to say what say pardon. Simple gesturse like this make life a lot simpliler and interactions with adults that make you feel small. shorter and less confrontantioal. Many adult including teachers parents and law officers hear this kind of talk more than your typical slang. Kill them with kindness and find someone who you can scream your problems at. This is what I did to get through my teenage years.

I hate most of my family(parents+brothers=somepeople I hate)<br />
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You know.....As a heads up....I have never gone to a sleepover, only with i girl i hate, but my parents like, they wish i was her,stuck up, rude, and an A******........All my life ive never been able to speak out, cause they're always trying to do it for me.......I can speak out for myslef, ive done it before, so why cant i do it now?Because of them, i suprisingly love school, there my teachers may be mean, but act like they could be better parents to me and my classmates than my parents would.......and my friends have seen the way my parents treat me and feel sorry for me.........with them i can actually be happy and make really funny jokes...mostly everyone who i joke with thinks id make a good comedian........but i never would be able to be and do things id like to, mostly to be happy.........my brothers are always on each others sides when it comes to bullying me.....some friends of mine are scared or too shy too confront them....some are blunt and never scared too<br />
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Well first, you know i had a teacher who slapped her son in the face,and he bled in the mouth, then got her son taken away for that.my parents acted and were so nice to her, but behind her back, said all kinds of rude and mean things about her(like she has an anger problem and everything), they tried to "help" her.then one day it was the 3rd or 2nd day to the last day of school, and i didnt want to go that day(there was a stupid field trip again, i couldn't go to, because i didn't get to pay, like always, because of my parents), my dad said i had to so i could learn(but we weren't going to do anything, anyways at school), i told him that, than I wouldn't do anything he told me(like to eat or dress up), he than got really angry......He beat me up and punched me in the mouth multiple times, my mom told my brother(he's really tough) then to beat me up also.....I was bleeding a ton.......then they finally agreed not to let me go to school, because "they understood that at the last days of school i didn't have to do anything", but i knew they were actually scared someone would find out, and they'd have to go to court,it'd be worse for them cause im a girl, they wouldn't want to go through the same things my teacher did....my brothers then were making fun of me and my mom"felt sorry for me", but i saw she was laughing at me, with my brothers....signaling i was crazy....I remember them making me going to my grandma/babysitter, she always understands what im going through, i love her...she agreed to babysit me like always(and i still think its stupid to go to the babysitter i was 11 then), i told her what happened, she scolded my parents after they came from work........Before that, i went to the bathroom, saw myself in my grandmas mirror, i was full of bruises and i was full of blood on my face, my grandma new something was wrong at first.....She gave me ice-packs.and rags...and let me fall asleep watching television on her couch, while she went to buy food at the grocery store nearby....she can actually trust me, unlike my parents....my dad tried to hug me and everything, but i declined, i pushed his face, so he got angry again and screamed at me in home....so i just went upstairs when we were home.......and locked myself in my room.....crying.....wishing i was dead........telling myself my family hated me....upset my 2 year old sister.....Im 12 now, and i still remember that day

I just turn up my MP3 Pla<x>yer and nod a bunch, mine don't even know the differance, the gaggle of hicks. It's worse when your douche brother is yelling that's it's your fault you can't pronounce R's correctly...

You would think they would sick of being so out of it.

My mom was not really nice either so i don't care about them! i just go with my friends and ditch my family

My mom was not really nice either so i don't care about them! i just go with my friends and ditch my family

I know what you mean my family sucks too. Most of them are lazy they use to curse around me when i was a kid now i know every ******* word in the book i hate my family i wish they would of never made me there so annoying! my mom left our family when i was 5 and from that day i still cry! My dad is just a yelling mean no good weirdo he has no respect and my brother is a ******* ******* cause he always tries to ruin my life! That is why i miss my mom

You are going through a ****** time in your life, I feel your anguish and utter hopelessness. Right now you are under their wing so to speak. But soon enough you will be out on your own and you can then form your own ideas and structure your own life. Until then make yourself scarce. Find something to do outside the house that is constructive. Hang out at the library, join some sort of group in school if possible. Read books, draw to what makes you feel good about yourself - and is not destructive. When you are older you will be a stronger person because of this, but you may also have issues come up that will bring back the pain, so I suggest as you get older you find counseling of some time. <br />
You can do this, you can be a better person by seeing how low and rotten others can be and not letting yourself stoop to that level. Hang in there and you WILL get through this to live a long life on your own terms...

Pretend as if you are listening to them and then do what is right for you.

Here's the thing. YOU have the power to cease this torture, it just takes a little practice. All you need to do is not allow them to make you angry. Let their words go in one ear & out the other. You can do this! This is a similar experience to those in a Military bootcamp. These folks have to take a lot of yelling in their faces & do not make a move or the slightest reply.<br />
Look, I know this is family & they should not be this way towards you. But it is up to you! Get in touch with what I call the Inner Warrior. This is the part of us that realizes we are in a tough spot, but is determined not to allow anything or anyone MAKE us angry. In fact, when you achieve this, you are then SUPERIOR (in a certain way) to them! They are unable to affect you w/ their negativity & you will be far happier & wiser. <br />
Try it, it does work!

i totally know how u feel my moms the same ******* way

i feel the same way love you cousin lauren