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What Can I Do To **** Her Off?

I hate my future mother in law with a passion.  I don't want to be in the same room as her, I don't want to see her, hear of her, nothing.  I want to be as far away from her as possible!  

She doesn't like me from the beginning, has attempted to break us up, and instigated to my fiance that I'm a bad person so that she can have him all to himself.  She tries to make him feel bad for her every chance she gets.  For example, when he showed her our engagement ring and told her how much it cost, the first thing she said to him was "I never got one."  This isn't about you! This is about the happiness and success of your son and his future family!

In addition, she is a horrible mother.  She doesn't want to take care of anything, she expects my fiance to do it for her as if she's the child and he's the parent.  She also is fake with her son.  She doesn't do anything to show genuine love and care..what she does to show love is asking her son if he is okay when he is OBVIOUSLY fine or bringing in a blanket or a pillow at night when he already has one too many already (he has 4 pillows and 2 blankets).  Why not do important things like cook for him, be happy that he's found someone  he wants to marry, and help us get married sooner by not being in the way financially?  

I used to like her and things were really peaceful and fine until she started to shower her colors and it just stuck.  We've been together for little over 1 year and I'm at the point of no return.  I HATE HER.

I've never had such an intense hatred for anyone or anything in my life.  I consider myself a very compassionate and loving person and I know I'm a bad person for saying this but I don't care...I want her to feel pain, I want to make her miserable.   She is divorced twice and is now lonely without anyone but my fiance in her life and she needs my fiance to take care of her financially.  She is living with him until we get married which is in about a year.  

What should I do to ease the tension?  Or better yet, does anyone have any tricks to pi$$ the witch off?   What are some things that I can do to make their relationship more distant than it is?  

Thanks!

grrwithpassion grrwithpassion 26-30, F Jan 4, 2010

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