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Idiot Husband

My husband is an idiot and I hate him.... always thinks he is right and thinks he is perfect..tries to make me feel bad about myself...used to, but it don't work anymore I know i am 300% of a better person than himm, we argued today in front of my wonderful 12 year old son because i didn't keep my promise to "be with him" last week...well I have no desire...I don't like him as a person...its not so easy just to separate we both love our kids dearly and will not give up custody and we have no money for separate dwellings it is sad. we have been married for 16 years.
aanddneal aanddneal 41-45 4 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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I know exactly how u feel it almost seems its better if they just would die!!! <br />
You are the better person to deal with that jerk!<br />
And there are a ton of ways u can get out of the marriage!! There are free lawyers<br />
U just have to find them! Stay strong and don't let him get to u! <br />
My husband says since he makes the money whatever he says goes<br />
And that I don't deserve to get out of the house! I HATE MEN!!!!!!! <br />
Be brave and just get out!!!!

I know exactly how u feel it almost seems its better if they just would die!!! <br />
You are the better person to deal with that jerk!<br />
And there are a ton of ways u can get out of the marriage!! There are free lawyers<br />
U just have to find them! Stay strong and don't let him get to u! <br />
My husband says since he makes the money whatever he says goes<br />
And that I don't deserve to get out of the house! I HATE MEN!!!!!!! <br />
Be brave and just get out!!!!

"Have tried to leave, never works. Always convinces me to stay with FAKE PROMISES and tears"<br />
?? Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice....

Feel trapped, huh? I know the feeling. He makes me sad every SINGLE day or so rage-filled, I don't even know how to handle it. Yelling, calling me a f*****g bi**ch, stupid, retarded, etc. If I complain about being called retarded, I'm told that "if I didn't do retarded things that I wouldn't be called a retard." Only problem is that the 'retard' designation can come for anything at any point in time and is totally unpredictable. Oh, and if I try to stick up for myself, I usually get hit or kicked in the ribs. I don't know what to do. Have tried to leave, never works. Always convinces me to stay with fake promises and tears. Like tonight, he kept something from me that I like because he didn't like what I had to say and told me that when I act like that I will have to learn that that's what's going to happen. There are eighty other things wrong, but not much point getting into much more of them. Sounds like there's lots of others, I'm not the only one. Take care and good luck to you. I hope you find the courage you need to be happy. You only have one life to live and when it's gone, it's gone.