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I Hate My Husband

He's Just Plain Mean And Nasty

By: Sickahim
Written on May 19th, 2011
By: Sickahim
Age: 46-50
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18 responses
  • liljojo50

    I bet your husband doesn't give a **** what you think. You married him you dumb *****

    2 days ago
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  • HighPockets1962

    OMG --- are we married to the same man?!?!?!? My husband is SO socially inept. He is incredibly condescending when he speaks to me (or anyone else for that matter). There is no subject known to man that he is not an expert on. He treats everyone like they are just a weeee bit below him. No waitress is good enough, no food delivered to his ugly fat body meets his satisfaction, no driver on the road follows the rules as he demands ... he finds fault in every living human being. I hate him with every cell in my body. But I can't get away from him ... how do you leave someone who professes he loves you like no other???? How can an idiot like this know anything about love??? How do you knowingly hurt someone???

    Apr 8
    2 likes
  • hgpfmne

    add me please

    Feb 21
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  • Hobbitopoly

    Yup, mine does that, too. Talks to people on the phone like they are idiots. So disrespectful. I get embarrassed, and I'm not even on the line.

    Jan 27
    1 like
  • lighthouse2010

    You poor ladies, seems to me that the second and third prize was no prize at all. I was going to offer to tell you about a book that may help reshape there way of thinking and from the way you discribed it, thats not going to help if they can't read.

    Jan 11
    1 like
  • allformoney

    I wonder if our husbands are related.Mine is also the only one who knows everything, everybody else including me is just an idiot he is a bully aggressive and rude.he worked in a high paying Union rotation job and NOBODY ever wants him back.I am loosing the will to live.

    Dec 1, 2012
    2 likes
  • nuttymontgomery

    now THAT was funny! haha

    Nov 16, 2012
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  • nolagirl1

    omg, thanks for the laugh

    Nov 15, 2012
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  • CuriousBunny

    -dies laughing-

    Aug 19, 2012
    1 like
  • brolo11

    I found I was with someone similar. The writing was on the wall. I felt like I was walking on egg shells whenever I was around him because I needed to do things a particular way. Any random thing could set him off and send him talking to me like I was a toddler. And he did this with a lot of people. I was so embarrassed to be around him when he went on his rantings.



    I got out when I realized I wasn't my confident, happy-go-lucky self anymore. You're no good to anyone, if you're not yourself anymore. In retrospect I feel very sad for someone like him. He'll never experience life like I do. I love being joyful and bringing joy to the people around me. As a professional in a position of leadership/authority I make certain when I give directions they are clear, and complete. I am also patient with those who don't immediately follow my train of thought.



    My advice is to leave. Life is too short to waste it on someone so rigid. If you have kids, chances are your kids will be thankful in the long run too.

    Jul 24, 2012
    3 likes
  • cantstanddopeymen

    yep i divorced one of them and know he makes another womans life hell.

    Jul 18, 2012
    1 like
  • amijg

    i have just come onto this site, and my husband is exactly the same. i realise this post is particularly old but i have been searching for a woman who has been experiencing the same things as me.

    my husband treats people the same and i work for him also and i am the only one who has balls to stand up to him, except he treats me worse in front of the staff and even customers.

    I am finding it very difficult to switch off from work. i am falling out of love with him very quickly and find it difficult to have intimate moments with him becuase its like i am devalued as a person by him.



    how do you cope? did u leave him? do u have any kids?

    Apr 24, 2012
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    • Marla48

      I work for mine too and he's just like yours, all knowing, talks down to people, his staff hates him, but he's too self-absorbed to notice. I had a car accident in 2009 and I was stopped (it's completely the other drivers fault). Their insurance adjuster was horrific to deal with so I hired an atty. now it goes to arbitration tomorrow and he picks tonight while I'm reading through my deposition from years ago to blow up at me. He's convinced this will end up costing him money. All I do is cost him money. I feel like after 12 years and 3 kids, I'm just his housekeeper and *****.

      Apr 24
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  • chrmctygrl

    Thanks for the laugh. I totally relate to everything you said about your husband, unfortunately. I hope you find a way out as soon as possible. Take care.

    Nov 27, 2011
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  • shamaness

    OMG that was too funny, thanks for making me laugh today. I swear, I think all men might do that when they are by themselves. They scratch their heads, then their nuts...

    Jul 31, 2011
    2 likes
  • happylittlehippie

    OMG are you married to my boss?! Hilarious ending and so well written but seriously, sounds JUST LIKE my boss...

    Jul 2, 2011
    3 likes
  • tushu

    it is clear dat u r way smartr dan him, n yes, aftr a time i guess most women realise dat dey r smarter dan der hubbies. :) bu i picture ur irony- frustrated lookin t him, n stil bearin wid him, for d sake f all d yrs u hav been togdr- guess developing a maternal blind eye to d hubby's drawbacks might work:)

    May 28, 2011
    2 likes
  • janisib

    Thank you! Your story seriously made me laugh!! Humor is a very effective coping method as well, and people who use it are less likely to grow bitter, nasty and mean! Keep it up =)

    May 19, 2011
    3 likes