I Hate Him

He makes me feel so incompetent. I try to be an understanding wife, someone to support him and encourage him constantly. And all I get in return is a slap in the face with his sulky, bitchie attitude. He tells me time and time again how muh he can do things alone, he doesn't need anyone's help. Once I connfront him and tell him how that hurts me, he brushes it off and becomes extremely defensive.
The biggest thing between us is the fact that he speaks another language and talks to other women in his native language. If I ask him about it he gives me some bullshit excuse like "oh she's contacting me for work" "oh she's my friend back home" (yet she's either naked or on a pole) but, I'm supposed to turn the other cheek.
We've had altercations in the past because he thought my exes were trying to contact me (which wasn't true). He' s not the type to see his faults but see it in others and he reaaly likes to make me feel like I'm useless or worthless.
I just feel I actually married a woman instead of a man.
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3 Responses May 10, 2012

IF YOU DON'T OWN A HOUSE AND ARE STILL YOUNG NO KIDS GET AWAY FROM THIS ASSHLE! He will always be one. Sorry <br />
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good luck<br />
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betina

I agree if he makes u feel so bad then whats the point of staying in that marriage.

I know the type. I deal with them at work. Sorry your husband is like this. Here's a nice pearl of wisdom for you: <br />
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Dont let your life be like a "movie extra" in someone elses.<br />
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Take care