Unhappy

I have been married for 16 years, have three kids.
I'm so sad at the moment, all my husband does it huff and puff! Won't sit down in the evening until he is happy that everything is done. When I say done I mean the kitchen counter doesn't have a crumb on it.
It's just getting worse, sick of hearing his voice.
The thing is we moved overseas and I don't have any family here! I'm scared to leave him as I haven't been on my own and don't know where to start.
We haven't had any bedroom fun for nearly 4 years. I know he isn't having an affair but now I'm thinking maybe I should.
Just don't know what to do.
Mrpeeps Mrpeeps
36-40
Jan 15, 2013