He Will Never Change

I know this, I have been warned time and again for 15 years. This man is a 41 year old, balding, obese, unhealthy horrible monster of a person. He told our 10 year old daughter tonight that pretty soon she won't have a dad and it will be her fault. She had an attitude because he bothers people until they cry ( usually only kids, because anyone else would knock him out). Oh yeah he's a real winner. So he kept picking on her until she screamed "I didn't do anything". Now she's rotten, she doesn't listen, she's rude and HE won't be spoken to like that. This guy, (I shouldn't have described him as a man because he's not even close ) is the most awful, bullying, tries to be controlling sorry *** excuse for a human being I have ever had the misfortune of meeting in my entire life. And I worked in social work and have met some pretty bad people so that's saying alot.

I am waiting to hear back from a landlord this week and will hopefully be out if here by the middle of February. My poor kids are being bullied in there own home where they should feel the safest.
What kind if sorry excuse for a human, father, man says such horrible things to his own children?
justangry justangry
31-35, F
3 Responses Jan 30, 2013

My husband doesn't talk bad towards the kids, just towards their mother. I am happy to be able to come on here and see similar experiences to mine so I'm not alone. At the same time, it saddens me that so many people go through this type of abuse everyday. I have gotten to the point where I don't even like men anymore. I have zero trust in them because of verbal abuse I have suffered for 15 years. You are doing the best things getting out for you and your kids. I wish more than anything I could leave, but for now I'm trapped and have even thought of suicide just so I wouldn't have to see him again. I don't do it for my kids because then he would win. Good luck and wish you and your kids the best!

Don't let him bully your daughter! Please get out quick or else she will become tired of it and eventually seek ways to get out of the house!

I mean she could run away, meet an older guy when she becomes a teenager just to have the means to leave. Or worse things. I wish you luck. Aim higher ma'am for yourself and your kids.

good for you getting them out of there!!!