i met my husband in 1986. We married in 1994. Everything was good until about 2 years ago. I believe he is the root of my depression. I really think he tries to upset me. Right now I am not working and most men can "step up" and support the family. He has to complain every morning. Oh yeah, did I mention I thinkhe has something going on with his dead brothers wife? When he goes over there, he never complains, when i say something about that he calls me CRAZY!!! I am so scared. I really think when I find a job I have to get out!! I love him, but he does not know how to love me.