WHY Do I Hate Him?
I've been reading some of your stories and they sound terrible and abusive. I just hate my husband because I hate him. I hate the way he looks, acts, dresses, acts, laughs everything! He's not a bad guy but I really, really hate him. He is very arrogant and thinks he's the only person on the planet who is right about any and every thing but who cares thats men right?
I sometimes think the mean guy would be easier because I'd have a reason to leave but the guy who is a hard worker and good provider seems great to everyone else so if I divorce him I'm just a *****. I've just been put on the back burner for so many years and I think that may be why I hate him but again people would say "he's just trying to provide you a good life" or some **** like that. I look into the near future though and it scares the crap out of me. My kids are teenagers and soon it will just be me and him. How terrible! I look at my life and say it's a great life with no love. I feel nothing for him a lot of times - meaning not even hate. He's just here. I wish him to leave me all the time but I know he never will. So I have to either decide that this is my life or do something to change it. I don't know what to do I just know I can't stand the man.