He's a Lier, Who Acts Like It's My Fault I Don't Trust Him!
My husband has systematically destroyed any love I had for him - and then compounds it all by acting like I choose to feel this way about him.
He admits that he has lied to me, that he has hidden things, that he has done things which have put our financial and emotional wellbeing at risk - yet does not take accountability.
Through his entire life he says that he has been bullied. Untill recently I believed him. Now I don't. He says that I am bullying him - and the basis for this is that when he does something which is stupid, thoughtless, mean, dangerous - I tell him I don't like it - first ask him not to do it again - then tell him not to do it again - then beg him not to do it again - and if I get angry and god forbid show I am angry then I am just being nasty because he doesn't do what I tell him.
He doesn't give a damn - yet he refuses to move out. I stopped loving this person a long time ago - yet I still feel like I should support him through this time as he says his Dr says he is depressed. He defo has mental health issues - but I don't believe he is really trying to sort these out. He lies constantly - how do you believe someone who lies all the time?