Can't Take the Verbal Abuse Anymore
Ok, been w/ him 11 years, married just going on 4...what ever possesed me to get married?! Why couldn't I see it before? After we got married, the covert vebal abuse deminished, but the physical abuse started. Once some friends caught onto that, he has gone underground and only verbally abuses me when no one else is around. My son is out or at his dads, and it's only me w/ him behind the walls of our house. I have finally realized what is going on. They always say, when your in the forest, you can't see the sun. Trust me after the last couple of weekends and our dog having to have ER surgery, realized that his drinking and abuse can't continue. But the hard part is now getting out. We actually live next door to his parents who are retired and home most of the time, so trying to escape w/ movers during the day certainley won't be a secret. I have come to the decision that I really can't stand being in the same room as him or interact act w/ him in a partnership of kindness or understanding.. I'm so done!!!!