Sexual Rejection By Husband

This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom, brush my teeth and come back to bed. I ***** off all my clothes and he says, "I should have gone fishing."

He wasn't joking, he was being mean like he always is. I was crushed. I have worked very hard to lose some weight lately and am down to what I weighed when we married. I was proud to shed my clothes and felt 'sexy'.

How do I handle this kind of rejection? What is wrong with him to treat me so cruelly?

hubbyhater hubbyhater
46-50, F
2 Responses Aug 30, 2009

I just logged into my account and looked at this post. History is repeating itself. Tonight, after my husband was gone all weekend, he goes to bed, I follow, take off all my clothes and ask him to have sex and he says, "Not until you finish my newsletter." <br />
I was crushed. I don't want to wait another two years and come back to this board to write about it happening again. <br />
I so rarely ask for sex. Usually he asks me and I always say yes. <br />
I was so mad tonight that I screamed at him. <br />
It didn't do any good. He doesn't care that he hurts my feelings. <br />
I must find the strength to leave him.

my husband always rejects me. he isnt mean about it, he just turns me down. this may be hard to say but is your husband having an affair? that is what it sounds like to me. does he care that he hurts you? i would hire a private investigator honey. he sounds like a bastard