How Long Is Too Long

I have been married for 20 years.  I am the primary wage earner for my family.  I am sick to death of being the everything person.  I never imagined i would have to do everything in my marriage.  My husband has never paid our taxes,  never handled our investments,  never paid our bills,  and never made more then $10 an hour.  Our oldest dtr will be in college soon, and I got a second job to pay for college costs.  I am so angry all the time that I could scream.  I earn close to six figures  but I'm just tired.  I don't love or respect him anymore. I'm staying for the kids  and I do not want to pay spousal support. 

zare zare
41-45, F
1 Response Mar 2, 2010

Zare I know exactly where u are coming from. My situation is the same . I have my own creche childcare business and my husband works for me. Even though I take care of all bills, loans etc. I am apparently still a stupid moron and he treats me like crap. Our children are 15 year old twins and a 9 year old. I am waiting for another 10 years before I can leave and could kill him:)glad i'm not the only one.