I Have Had Enough!
I have a husband who is the biggest liar. Ever since we got married, I have helped him handle his finances because he gives me the lame reason of not earning enough. Since I come from a pretty stable family, I have all the support from my family. For two years, I had to buy groceries and stuff while he gambled his money away. I don't hold any of his bank cards and he says he manages his finances so well. He loaned a lot of money without me knowing and I didn't know where the money went. When he recently lost his job, he blamed me for his financial situation because I did not agree to him filing for another loan! This stupid guy couldn't and never did math - His money is never enought to pay his debts, and now he is so damn hard to deal with because he is so miserable with all his payables. I am so sick of dealing with his crap, and I refuse to help him out with his problems. I am now regretting that I did not leave him earlier on when our daughter was still small. Besides, he never bought her anything except for a toy when she was still a baby! Ugh! I am so tired and so sick of his ways that I no longer feel anything for him! I can't even stand to be in the room with him. I am so miserable in the hell that he created that I am already thinking that I need to be in a happier place elsewhere!
Now I can clearly see how irresponsible he is. He even threatened me saying that he will fix his problems without consulting me, which means it is another bad financial decision. Over the years he has earned the reputation for that. He even sold our old car because he needed money. He said with the promotion that he got from his work, he may need to get a new one so that he can pay off some of his debts. The bastard sold our old car and bought a top of the line car that he can barely afford to pay! I did not talk to him for weeks. I am seriously thinking that I have no future with him. Sometimes, I would just stare at his face while sleeping and I would wonder when I would ever get out of this mess!