Psychotic Narcissistic SociopathI met my husband in April of 2010. He warned me the first time we talked that his ex wife was crazy. Crazy wasn't even close to what this woman is! She has made our lives, her children's lives and even my ex husband's life a living nightmare. I will try to make this as short as possible even though I'm sure I could write a novel after all I've been through.
The day of our first date she called and screamed at my husband telling him he was a bad father because he wasn't at his kids' chess tournament...I found out later that parents aren't allowed at the tournaments anyway. She found me on Facebook somehow and contacted my ex and his entire family. She composed an email to my husband stating that they (the ex's family) feared for my children because I was extremely promiscuous and irresponsible. She called me and sent me messages begging me to contact her. She had his ex before her send me emails about my husband. She told me she slept with my husband the night before our wedding (not true because I was with him)And that she was pregnant with his child. She at one point even told my husband he would never see his children again and we had to chase her in our car while on the phone with the police! That was all just within our first two months of knowing each other.
She started this blog and emailed me the address. I told myself I wouldn't give into her games, but I found myself letting curiosity get the best of me! Nothing on the blog is true. She is a Pathological liar! But she has followers and lots of them! They all encourage her and speak horribly of me and my husband.
Around Jan of 2011, she began abusing presc
After we called CPS and they did an investigation, they awarded us temporary custody of the kids. While she was in one of her drunken states, we convinced her to sign over custody of the kids. She only agreed to the two oldest boys and her only stipulation was that she could still claim them on her taxes. We agreed. After she convinced the Case worker that she was sober, we had to let my step daughter go back to her. We are trying to save enough money to go to court to gain custody of he as well. A few weeks ago we received a call from my stepdaughter who was screaming! She said that he mom had called her a ***** and kicked her out of the house. We calle the police, but when they called us, they said that my stepdaughter was crying out for attention because she was in trouble.
I have taken my stepsons in for ADHD evaluations as well as counseling. It just so happens that the Dr. Has their past medical history. My husbands ex had them on all sorts of anti-depressants and other medications. She claimed they were bipolar and schizophrenic and flat out crazy! None of this is even remotely true. The Dr. Said that he thinks the mother has munchausens or was trying to get some sort of disability from the state. My stepsons are not on any medication now and tested above grade level in all subjects.
The craziness has never stopped. She continues to call and email and blog constantly to us or about us. Just today, she called my husband over ten times in a row and left three voicemails where she was clearly intoxicated and made no sense. She called me three times and left one voicemail. I answered once, but couldn't make sense of what she was saying.
I am sickened, saddened and exhausted. I don't know how to make her stop. I don't know how much more I can handle either. My husband and I have a son together now (that she wished dead by the way). He is the sweetest little boy and the joy of our lives! I stay and put up with a lot of it just for that reason, but I don't know how much more I can take.