Go Away You Evil B****

I have been married for a little over 2 weeks. I have 2 children and I've got a chick that won't go away. She comes back around whenever she pleases no matter what. It's bizarre because she comes around mostly when we are going through hell. It makes my life difficult and my husband and I fight about it often. He's weird about me talking to my exes though and I stopped when he asked me. Recently she contacted him while I was about 6 months pregnant and told him she missed him terribly and couldn't imagine him not being in her life. When I brought it up he kept saying she didn't mean it like that. I'm not sure what the hell else she could have meant. He kept responding to her and they traded music and she offered to help with the baby. MY BABY!!!! I felt like that was completely inappropriate. She told him months ago she didn't want to talk to him and now she's back again starting trouble. He told her to stop texting and messaging him but of course I was blamed for all of it. I am so depressed about this and I feel so betrayed.
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4 Responses Jan 17, 2013

You are not alone. My boyfriend ex-wife is always around too. She texts him all the time. She even went ahead and asked for sex from him the one night. It ****** me off that does not stand up to her. So I am sorry but vent her because saying all the stuff to your husband is going to cause more stress. Believe me I know it is hard. But in the long run he is married to you in end. So smile and walk away from her.

She probably calls your hubby every time she gets dumped! It seems as though he likes the attention, maybe he feels like he's not getting enough attention from you, I'm not saying it's right but I'm trying to jump into a mans wee little brain!! Some women really like messing with other women, gives them some sort of control when they have no control. I don't really think it's cool to talk to your ex but I have to admit I do talk to mine occasionally, and believe me I have no interest other than a fond friendship since I've forgotten all the nastyness we once shared. I'm in the same boat tho - my BF's exwife is around all the time, it' s not easy and she loves to mess with me, I just smile and I keep my mouth shut and belive me I'm absolutely positive that irritates her more than anything. Unless your hubby does something totally crazy, don't complain to him, let it go, get on this site and vent, call your mom and your girlfriends and vent but don't let this little beyotch screw up your marriage.

What you have on your hands are two self assumed tortured "artists." They can only understand each others pain whilst they reek their real agony on you. Please keep your innocent child out of their drama. They won't change. Too self-centered and dramatic.

I would feel betrayed too. Youre not alone