But Not Everyday
when I joined this group I was feeling particularly down. I dont actually hate my life and any of you in this group shouldn't either. Life is too short to focus on the negatives. I hate the parts of my life that are beyond my control and some that I am smothered with although they are within my control. Like being married. I don't always like my wife very much in fact to be honest most of the time I hate her. However we share some of the greatest kids on the planet and I want them to grow up with both parents. All that talk of they can see through the unhappiness is crap. I hide it well for their benefit. I think it would be selfish of me to leave. We are a family of 6 and because one is unhappy he should make the rest unhappy? I'm going with the greatest good on this one. I know my thinking may be flawed but im going with it anyway.