My Mother In Law Is The Most Evil Person I Know

Hi All,
gee, i dont know where to start......   

my Husband and I have been together for almost 3 years, we share a son together and my husband has become a great step father to my 4 other children,  My husband has a older son, in which is another story......

any way since we have been together we have had to deal with so much crap from my MIL.... and only now am i finding out why.  She is the type of person who will walk all over you to get what she wants...actually she would sell her soul to get her own way. im sure of it...... this is what she does...and trust me this is the truth...i will not add anything to this ok.....

she is married and has been for 40 years......she lives on the internet...the internet is her life....she has gone without food to pay her phone bill to keep the internet connected...... she met this man a few years back in which she fell in love with...she has told me this herself.....she lives in Australia and he lives in Texas...he is also married.... well this guy and his wife came out to Australia for a holiday and stayed with my MIL and FIL for 2 weeks.......since then my MIL has been crazy.......after these people went home to Texas my MIL had people believing that the wife was a total *****.....i remember i went to visit the MIL one day and she was a mess....saying that the wife had emailed her all these conversation that her husband and my MIL had, but this lady had added things in to the converstion which made it look like they were having a affair....well i didnt want to believe that my MIL would be doing this so i believed her....untill one day i was fixing my MIL computer and a message popped up from this guy... telling my MIL how much he enjoyed her ***** show the night before and he was getting all excited just thinking about what my MIL had done to him on there holiday.......

you can imagine how this made me feel......i left my MIL home and struggled with this for days before i told my husband.......from that time on we hardly visited  my MIL and FIL......which was causing arguements with other family members because the MIL was winging about us not even having the respect to visit....she started turning family members against us...telling them that my husband had his own family now..that he didnt need them....that i was the one who wouldnt let him see them.....and the family started to beieve her........and still do....... this all happened over a year ago......then last year my 12 year old daughter was diagnosed with cancer.........  we decided to put it all behind us as we needed family and going through what we were was more important then anything else in the world........well untill the MIL started to use my daughter illness to get people to feel sorry for her........

see all the MIL wants is to go to Texas. but her finances will not allow her to go........well my daughter was offered a wish from the make a wish foundation, her wish was to go to disneyland...and it was granted...she goes this october....well when the MIL found out she was not happy...all we ever heard from her was that ....she had better be coming with us......

we slowly stopped contact with her again from november last year.......and every so offen she would pop up and cause a heap of trouble....she would go around telling people that i was using my daughter illness to get things.......everything that she was doing she would tell people that i was doing.......

then one day i was in the internet and went to sign into my emails.......once the email page came up i was a but confussed...i was not expecting so many and didnt know half of the names.....so i started opening them and quickly realised that i was in my MIL emails.....she had used my computer and her email address and password were saved into my computer......i have this set us for quick access....i just was not looking peopley when i logged in.......

this is when i found out about a noter affair she was having with someother guys she met off the internet....this guy she introduced to my FIL  to me to other family members......she is tell everyone that he is a good friend....  yeah right  a friend with alot of benifits........ after this my Husband sent her a message telling her that he knew about it and that she needed help...... we never heard a thing back........only that bit by bit all family members were disowning us....not even looking at us when we saw them,,,,,   we didnt tell anyone what we knew as we didnt want to hurt anyone.....as they all think my MIL is such a wondeful person......

we have had enough of everyone and when i say everyone i mean even our kids football club......no one wanted anything to do with us...so we moved state....... we have been here about 2 months and just last week i was searching photos from my MIL facebook page...this is the only way we can see family and find out if they are all ok......... when i clicked on a link and found that she is now uploading nude photos of her having sex with another guy.......

what do i do... iam so concerned not only for the safty of my MIL but she babysits my nephew during the week, and she has 2 little girls living in the same house.......... she has already had a few of these men in her house...one of which she couldnt get rid of for 2 days as he was homeless.....my FIL in 60 in cant defend himself......

no one in the family will believe us if we tell them....my MIL is that good even with the photos she will still make out that we somehow made it up.....

some one can you please help me....i dont know what to do

im so sorry for such a long post 
kelly34 kelly34
31-35, F
1 Response Aug 5, 2010

Holy smokes!!!! She is a freaking lying pervert!!!! I am so sorry you guys are going through this! <br />
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I would just focus on you and your family. If she goes down for being a dirty pervert than so be it. She is a grown woman. She is turning everyone against you guys because she is super embarrassed that you found out. <br />
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Go to www.shutterfly.com and make everyone in the family a nice friendly card with evidence of her behavior. Then maybe people will believe you. But don't put a return address on it. :)<br />
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Good luck with all of this! What a mess...<br />
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How is your daughter feeling?