We moved earlier this year to start a new life without my husbands crazy mother and her family. All our numbers have been changed, no one has our address and my husband wrote his family a good bye letter basically saying he wants nothing to do with them. There is no way for her to find us...or so we thought. Low and behold, last week my crazy a$$ MIL ambushed me in the parking lot of my employment. I was stunnned. First of all I couldn't respond in the way I wanted, which was to tell her to fu(k off, b/c all my co workers were walking out to their cars as well. She wants us, especially our child, back in their lives and pleaded with me to let her (and her family) back in. Here is my dilemma. I don't believe a single word this insane woman utters. Where does she get off confronting me at my place of work?! Why does she feel she has a right to intrude upon our lives, especially the week before Christmas? Does she really think a transparent apology and some kind words are going to sweep away 8 years of hell she has caused us? It wasn't solely my decision to eliminate them from our lives, it was mainly her son's (my husband). What I wanted to do was march my a$$ down the the local sherriff's office to get a RO against her. My husband said, no, that is just what she wants, b/c then she'd have an excuse to confront us, plus more info about where we are living and working. I'm out of my mind and feel like our lives are unsafe yet again. Let me add that the last time I saw her was almost 3 years ago when we had a major blow out and as I tried to get my child out of her car she gassed it and almost ran over my foot, knocking me down to the ground. I had a bruise up the whole front of my shin and ankle and my child was terrified of her b/c of it. What should I do?