I can't stand the sound or sight of my MIL, just hearing her ignorant voice makes me want to puke. No matter what I do its never enough or done the way she wants it despite that the end result is the same. She does the same to my wife, no what she does or how she does it, the MIL is sure to complain about it not being done right or not how Popo ( grandma ) did it. She treats my wife like a personal chauffeur, Secretary and a slave. Thats what ****** me off the most about my MIL. Did I mention that she's a hoarder? She has crap all over the house that can be tossed or donated but no she keeps it piled up all around the house. When my BIL confronted her about it all she did is come up with one excuse after another why she can't get rid of it For example, worn out brooms, rake handles, boxes, baskets you name she has it piled some where. Its like living on the set of Sandfort and son, its going to take a 40 rolloff to trash alll the crap she has laying around. The other thing that erks me is her habit of washing and reusing the following: saran wrap, foil, paper plates and paper towerls! Gross! Ever week I pray to God for strength and forgiveness because ever morning I hope that the MIL didn't wake up. Hell I stopped watching CSI and Cold Case because I would dream of getting rid of the MIL. All I have is feelings of annimostity and hate towards my MIL. One day my wish will come true and I will be the first in line to say goodbye at her funeral, I will also return to her grave site later to dance on her gravve with a dozen black roses in the light of a pale blure moon.