Hate Her!

Yes, I hate mine too!! She stays with us for about 4 days 2x /year, and shell be in town next week. What I've done is personally stopped talking to her at all. When she calls, I don't answer & she'll call his cell after leaving a hateful message. When she does call him, he chooses to check in with me to see if we have something going on & we always do. Next, change your email. Tell your husband that she is hateful, controlling and hateful to you & that you will not put up with her treating you that way so you won't talk to her, but he can. She'll hate you yes, but who cares. narcissist CANNOT EVER EVER love anyone, and she has never loved you or respected you!! She uses you & your husband to cater to her bc this is how they feel justified & complimented. When he does do stuff for her, he will feel guilty & she will always talk crap about you to him, he will slowly see why you don't talk to her, and hopefully he'll see the way she is. He'll always want to help her, but maybe he can help her by calling the repair man or the auto mechanic instead of running over to try & "fix" whatever she needs. She will stop calling as much bc she'll learn the results, she won't like them bc she wants to see him running all over the place at her demands. When he doesn't, she'll move on to her next victim. Maybe this helps?