I Am About 5 Seconds Away From A Nervous Breakdown!!I am only 19, my partner is 20. we have been together since i was 14. Me and his mother got off to a REALLY bad start. we were just hanging out one day after school when we had just met and she went off her nut. she followed us to our friends house, came onto the property, ripped open the door and started screaming at him right there in front of people she didnt even know. then her and my mom got into a huge screaming match in the middle of the street just as school got out. a few days later we took him back and she came out onto the street and started throwing his stuff and him and attacking our car. so he came to live with us.he was only 15. about a year later we met again. she told me that she had been really ill (she has drug induced psychosis) but had gotten help and she was sorry. then for the past 3 years things were fine, we got along great and we have heaps in common.
then we announced that we were getting married......... and all hell has broken loose. seriously. she and my 13 year old SIL to be came to stay with us.
(we live about 9 hours away). and for the first few days things were fine, she even came with me to look at gowns.
but last wednesday she flipped her f******g lid. she started throwing things round our house, screaming and yelling, she ripped cupboard doors off the hinges and smashed windows. (she had come to help us move and had only lived in the new house 2 days, needless to say our landlady is furious).
we had the police come and uplift her. when her daughter said she didnt want to go she started up again in front of the police and they placed her in our care until they could sort something out. since then child services has gotten involved and amy has come out and said that her mom has been beating her, AND supplying her with drugs and cigarettes. she has been exposed to adult partys were she saw her mom using needles and left at the mercy of dirty old men. child services in front of me and my partner called her a liar! i know this girl and im telling you, that she is not the type to sit there and make up a story as elaborate as that. MIL has gotten some of her dodgy mates to drive by our house at night and throw things and call us and abuse us on the street. im worried that they are going to burn the house down or something. amy is staying with us for now and is refusing to go home with her but i dont know how much more i can take. i want to curl up in my own mothers lap and just stay there.
ARGH. i am too young for this.
NEW DEVELOPMENT, 2 MONTHS I HAD A MISCARRIAGE, MY PARTNER AND I WERE DEVASTATED. SHE HAS MADE AN ALLEGATION THAT THE REASON I HAVE MADE UP LIES AND GOT AMY TO TELL THEM TO CHILD SERVICES IS BECAUSE I AM TRYING TO REPLACE MY PREGNANCY WITH HER CHILD. I knew she had issues, but that is unnecessarily cruel. it is such an awful thing to say im not even sure how im supposed to react.