I Hate My Mother In Law
I am going to say how I feel about my mother in law and I ask after you read it does this make me a bad daughter in law? I marryed my husband for the most part ive wanted a realationship with my mother in law from day one . I know as a mother no parent is perfect we raise our children the best we can . ive learned so much from my mother I know my birth mother wasn’t perfect and I still love my mother. My mother in law the first day I walked threw her front door she asked to raise my daughter . and I told her I would raise my daughter then she wanted to home school my daughter I respectfully told her no thanks you. I have known people that have people that have home schooled them and for the most part the ones that really do home school and do teach their children I respect them, but the home schooled children in my opion have trouble socicalising with the other children . depepending when you put the home schooled children in public school . it had its good things about home schooling and bad things just like the public schooling too. Well today the grand daughter that my mother in law is raising is 12 years old and this is the first year the grand daughters going to go to public school the child does very well in school and I aplode my mother in law shes done a wonderful job home schooling , iam starting to see things my mother in law is doing to the grand daughter.
The grand daughter is pulling panic acticks I think the grand mother is enabling the grand daughter becalse she always gives in to her and lets her stay home well the public school the grand daughter is going to doesn’t make her face any thing or any one. And the grand daughter this morning was pulling a panic attack I say pulling a panic attack , becalse ive seen the grand daughter she recovers really well 10 minutes after grand ma says she can stay home . well this morning she was pulling it again over she couldn’t find her flip flops shoes she just had to ware them she had grand ma almost tarring up her and the grand mothers bed room { yes she still sleeps with grand ma at the age of 12} well grand ma was getting p I sses off , then I hurd the grand daughter say grand ma you are making me have panic attacks. Wow the grand daughter said a mouth full she said the truth . then mother in law comes out of the bedroom with almost tears in her eyes asking us well do you think I give Anna panic attacks? I didn’t say any thing becalse I didn’t want my a s s handed to me for not saying what my mother in law wanted me to say. So after she took anna to school that surprised me . and really anna was teling the truth of what she said , she knows shes playing grand ma. Shes becoming like grand ma manipulatlater and its sad. Well ive seen her daughter that shes raised and shes47 years old and a basket case . well the grand daughter I fear is going to be like that too. She wont make anna eat any thing that she don’t want to eat . anna makes her self sick to get out of going to school and when she gets taken to the doctor they cant find any thing wrong with her she sundae waight she weighs 70 punds and she looks very sick . iam afraid shes
Not eating to make her self sick for attion . becalse grand ma will spoon feed her when shes gets sick and I fear for when grand ma passess on becalse the childs mother wont raise her she will try probly for a short while then we will what I call clean up the mess that grand mas made the grand child , and forgive me but I wont reward my knieses bad behaver like grand ma does her ive knoticed that when anna gets sick she takes her out to get something like shoes , and anna s is smart shes knows how to play her . grand ma picks up after anna she lets her hang around a mintally retarted 26 year old that’s s ex ually active and she belives the girl wont get anna into trouble . this passded week annas been bullyed by a 11 year old best friend and now after years of her grand daughter been bullyed by her so called best friend now grand ma tells the girl she cant come over . the thing with anna she has no boundrys she grand ma on one hand treats the 12 year old
Like a adult then makes her go to bed at 9pm even on week ends . its sad becalse I fear that my husband and I will wind up rasing anna when grand ma passess and I rresent her for that , I know grand mas trying to make up for the things shes done wrong rasiing my husband and his sister so by rasiing anna shes making up for all shes done wrong raising them and its so sad . its gona be hard on the child when she grows up . t he child is very smart but she doesn’t have commin cants . I dread it becalse I see the problems the child will have . and I cant turn her away when her grand ma passess away . so does this make me a bad aunt becalse I don’t want to raise her ?see i have a twin sister and shes only 5 minutes younger than me my parents did the same thing as my mother in law coddled my sister she could never do no wrong and now shes 43 years old and iam sick of bailing her out with her bills i dont want anna to grow up like that becalse grand ma makes sure she gets any thing she wants , and we cant spoil her like that . i know it will be a hard ship on us. update jan 16 ,09 we bought a
house praise god!!! peace alast .
