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My son's wife died when his daughter was 6 months old. He remarried a year later and they had a son. The son gets al the attention from both parents and the daughter gets left out. When I visit he does not like it if I give her one on one attention and the son constantly acts out. Yells and screams for stupid things like a glass of water. The daughter is starting to see the favoritism by acting out at school etc. By the way she is kindergarden and the son is in mothers day out both at the same school. I will not visit again and have told him as much as long as they play these games. His wife plasters his son all over facebook as well as their dogs but not the daughter. Thus showing that she is not even better than a dog. Things will get worse as they grow older. Anyway I would send the money back do things the way I want them by treating both children with the same amount of love and acceptance and if she does not like it she looses out not your child.