No Nothing

My MIL is a Halfling, that is a half person, half a thing. She doesn’t know who she is. She doesn’t know anything until her husband tells her so, & then it is distorted. If he likes something, she loves it. If he dislikes something, she hates it. She has no thoughts of her own, so she must repeat what others say. She constantly talks about everyone behind their back. She has no thoughts of her own so she repeats others completely out of context in an effort to gain approval. Her fall back is I didn’t say that so & so did. She never does anything wrong because she never makes any decisions. She takes no responsibility for anything. She makes no choices, she is always the victim. The really sad thing is her daughter is the same way. MIL has always done anything to please the man in her life & the daughter is the same way. They are the kind of women that have to have a man in their life, doesn’t matter that he treats them like crap. Whatever he wants he gets. Lies to them, no problem. Steals from them, no problem. Cheats on them, no problem. Does nothing around the house, no problem. Wants some new toy they can’t afford (gun, boat, truck), no problem. He can do anything he wants, she will put up with it, no problem. It’s disturbing for me to watch, but you can’t help someone that doesn’t want help. They plaster a big smile on their face, so long as they have a man all is right with the world. I should just ignore the fact that he is scum & be happy for her, she has a man. Her life is complete.
beyourself789 beyourself789
31-35, F
1 Response May 8, 2012

I wish you happiness you don't deserve this woman messing up your life. She's not worth the angst. Keep strong! Love and hugs xxx