Mother Litle DetailWil i ever be close to my mother in law? The answer is no i think it wil never happen. To many things have happend and i really want her to say sorry to me and i know she wil not do.
What have all happend? To many things..
1 When i lived in the same house as the family of my boyfriend ( i say to you it is something you should never do, but i had no choice) Oke in any case one of the first things that have happend that i was in periods and for me the most normal thing is to put my garbidge in a bin. Wel i gues i was thinking that is allowed. But then i came in the house with my bf and she came to me all angry that what was i thinking to put it in the bin. To make it more simple she didnt want that i put my "garbidge" in her bin. WTF.. so yeh i stared to hate her. Of course i was also a lot upset i didnt want to have a relationship like that with her. Also he is my first bf so i dont have luck at all.
2 This also happend we eaten dinner i helped to clean a bit ( not everything) and went with my bf to the other room. We were talking a bit and sundely my bf raised up and stormed to the dining room. He heard them talking about me (mother/ sister) that i couldnt take my glass to the kitchen. Yeh that was really silly. And of course he came up for me. Lots of screaming and it ended that his mother had a broken toe. I did not feel sorry at all. It was her own fault that she made trouble about NOTHING in the first place.
3 My boyfriend and i we were on a short holliday to Paris for my birthday. Wich btw they never sayed congratulations for that. He sayed to his mother we go on holliday, but she was not interested. In any case when we were on holliday my bf called his mother to ask how she is because she is in devorce. Then she asked were we are, he sayed the truth in Paris. She starts al from why he didnt say. And then started the complaying about me. That she doesnt have a relationship with me and that she doesnt find me normal. Direct insult to me. After that phone call my bf stayed bad the whole day and me to. So i felt like my birthday present was a bit ruined. Thinking about this makes me stil angry. Because what is really the defination of normal. Because the way you behave is not normal.
Conclusion: there are more stories to tell many details, but these are for me the most memorbel. I know why she is like this she is jelouse. Sooner or later she has to accept it is already taken 1,5 year. If it doesnt get better she wil be not part of my life. And if we wil decide to have a baby one day i dont want her to be grandmother. She wil just not be part of it. I gues it gets better in time..