Ok, here goes. Hope all of you are sitting down as you read this. I know some of you can actually relate which will be a shame, but there are hateful people in the world like this and what a waste. I have been with my husband for four years now and married for two. Since day one, she treated me like a door mat. I had to hear all the stories about my husband and his ex wife and was constatly compared to this girl. It was so funny, cause she hated this girl, but she always compared me to her. I would always just let her talk cause I knew how she was and I wanted my boyfriend's mom to like me. My mother died when I was a baby and it has always been very important for mothers to like me for some reason, guess cause I never had one. Well we started to kind of form a bond at one point, but then out of the blue she started getting along with the ex wife and they became close again and she started hating on me. That right there made my husband so angry that she could even be close with his ex, but this is the type of woman she is. Myself and his ex didn't get along at all for years and we now know that she was the reason we didn't get along. She would constantly get in between us and stir the pot. My hubby and his ex have a child together and her and I decided when I was pregnant that we needed to talk our problems out like mature women and we did. Things are great between her and I now and worse between me and my mil. Of course they are closer than ever and she tells people that she is still her daughter in law. What a slap in the face right? We never go to her house anymore cause if I go, she throws her nose up in the air, make comments or stares me down so hard my head feels like it's on fire. All my bils and sils want me over there to go hang with them, but it's so hard for me to go over there and watch her glote on all of them and compltely ignore me and my husband. She treats my husband like he is the black sheep of the family and she will tell him it's because she resents him being married to me. He has always had my back since day one, but it's so hard cause they work together and he has to hear all her crap everyday. Anytime any of my friends run into her, she talks really bad about me and tells everyone that the whole family doens't like me. When we got married two years ago, we had a very small ceremony, but we asked our parents and siblings to come. I wanted my dad, his dad and mom to sign the marriage license. They did not even come to the wedding cause they had to plant corn at their camp in MS for hunting season. When they got back and saw that members from my family had gone, she started telling everyone how evil I was cause I didn't invite them to the wedding. Can you believe that? Well I confronted her on that one in front of my fil and the family and she lied until she was blue in the face. They all know that we invited them though cause they were all their when we told them we wanted them to sign the license at the ceremony. SHE IS NUTS!! She starts her crap all the time and then lies when you confront her. When I got pregnant, we were so excited about it and we went to tell her, her response was " Oh, I am not ready for another grandbaby right now". WTF!!! It's not her baby, so why would she say that. My hubby was so mad and of course tears were building up in my eyes that he grabbed me and said lets go baby and told her she was so out of line. Then she had the nerve to call us later and tell us she didn't mean it like that, she was just in shock. It wasn't ok with either one of us though cause she was being mean. Well once again, when we found out the sex of the baby we went to tell her and her response in front of the whole family was " I don't like girls, I don't know how to deal with them, it's a shame it's not going to be a boy". It crushed me and once again my hubby jumped her *** and we left. My entire pregnancy i was in and out of the hospital with high blood pressure and nausea really bad and she cause most of the stress, but the minute I would get put in the hospital she was the first one there with flowers and all. She is physco!!! She actually wanted to be in the room when I delivered and I was like not no, but hell no. Well since my daughter has been born she won't have anything to do with her. She sees all of her other grandchildren all the time though and throws it in my hubby's face everyday how she watches them and spends time with them. The last time she saw my daughter we were at a birthday party for my nephew and my daughter was at her leg just staring at her and she didn't even tell her hello or pick her up or anything. She just walked away from her like she was nothing. It breaks my heart, but what should I do. It has gotten so bad right now that I don't even know where my marriage stands. The sad part is we are right in the middle of planning a renewal of vows ceremony and reception since we didn't do what we wanted the first time and I don't even know if we will make it to that point. I love my husband so much, but I can't deal with the constant bullying of his mother.