Mean Spirited Mother In LawI have tried to include my mother in law in the family. She continually finds reason to insult me and attempts to cause trouble between me and my husband. I planned a very special Christmas dinner and included her and at the last minute she cancels due to the fact that she hates me. I have been married 30 years and have known for a long time that she just hates me for no reason other than I exist.
It is a continual mean spirit that I cannot deal with any more. I told my husband that I am done with her in my life. I removed her phone number turned in her house key what a cathartic experience. To be able to share this makes me feel more empowered. I don't actually hate her because this takes to much energy-I just don,t care any more.