Controlling Mother In Law Using "the Will"
My mother-in-law might look like a sweet 92 year old. But she is evil to the core. She hates me, but I am not alone, she hates about 95% of people. That includes the lady that works in the pharmacy she goes to her who wouldn't give her a bandaid from a box on the shelf and asked her to go to customer service for one. It also includes all her doctors, her dentist, the lady at the post office, and the neighbors on every side of her house who she stomps up to their doors and screams at them for whatever slight she has imagined. She has had a revolving door of friends over 20 years that I've seen. But she treats me worst of all. She has no other family except my husband and she wants to be the wife. She has tried to physically harm me and has verbally abused me over and over, usually when my hubby leaves the room. I love him but I am fed up with him not standing up to her. She will lie straight to his face and he will accept the lie even when he knows she is doing it. Once she tried to give me orange juice, but I had a feeling something was wrong with it and said no thanks. When my husband said he'd take it and reached for it, she quickly snatched it away and dumped it down the sink. Then there was the time she was having a disagreement with him and he went upstairs to lay down because she'd made him sick with her tantrums. She asked me to go to her cellar for something and I did and she followed me down and starting shaking me. Luckily he knew something was up and came down or I might be buried in that cellar now. She looked after our cat which "disappeared". Last year she dropped pills on the floor which the dog got to. This year we caught her bringing pills to the livingroom over christmas when there was no reason for her to take them there - not even a fridge on that floor of the house to get a drink from to take a pill with and she started fussing with the pills right beside the dogs kennel. Then she cornered me on the 26th the night before she left. I stood up to her and told her it was my house and I would not tolerate her disrespecting me in my own home and that we needed to stay away from each other. So she went crying to my husband and said she just wants to be part of the family. This from the lady who tried to get away with slapping our son in the face when he was a toddler because she gave him a straw and he knocked something over with it and tried roughing him up at an aquarium when took her on vacation with us. She had her will read to us this last summer which contains a clause about me not inheriting. Like I give a crap. I can achieve my own financial goals without that witches help. But I wish I could find a way to get more support from my husband because I am getting very bitterly angry with him for not dealing with her.