I Hate My Mother In Law
My boyfriend is an only child….need I say more. We have been together for almost 4 years and plan to get married once he finishes school. Grad school is over in a month. We moved to a different state for him to finish an internship and attend school.
His mom is crazy totally crazy and his dad isn’t far behind, I often wonder how he is so normal. His baby nursery is still exactly the same. With toys, clothes, etc. He will be 26 this year. His mom sends care packages in the mail every week for him. I get an email every week reminding me to check my mail. Then I get nasty emails when UPS loses them or they don’t arrive on time. Before I moved in to our new apartment she rented a truck and decorated my entire apartment with items I nicely told her we didn’t need. Broken furniture, rusted dishes, and stained sheets. She cried when I had items donated to Salivation Army (she is a hoarder).
I’m nice and respectful to her I have never been mean or rude. I took her home shopping before our move in date so she could feel included. I use to make phone calls to her. I use to talk to her almost every day. It had to stop because she was stressing me out with her rudeness.
After being harassed through my work email by her, my boyfriend finally put his foot down and told her to stop. A couple days after that, I get an email from her on my personal account, about my thyroid cancer. I had thyroid cancer in high school, I had it removed, and I go to the doctor every 6 months to have my hormone levels checked. It’s a big deal and a big part of my life. She knows that.
She sends me an email explaining that a friend of hers has throat cancer (different than thyroid cancer) and that the doctor told him it was from HPV. She wants to know if my thyroid cancer was caused by HPV and if I have been vaccinated for it and informs me she wants my boyfriend to get vaccinated for HPV. After crying and cooling down for a few hours. I email her back nicely and respectfully and told her my medical history is private even though I have openly discussed my cancer before. I also informed her HPV was a sexually transmitted disease and, no, thyroid cancer was not caused by that and that she needed to do a little more research. I then told her if my boyfriend was concerned about something like that then I and he needed to have a private conversation. She emailed me back telling me she was just trying to send me good information and that I took it the wrong way.
She is not allowed to email me ever again. After that I blocked her on facebook. She doesn’t work or have hobbies or friends because she is mean to everyone. All she does is stalk us on the internet and emails constantly. My future father in law is also a jerk that’s a whole other story though but yes they are still together. We are about to move into a new apartment in a few weeks and there is still some of the furniture that I didn’t want or need in our apartment. They are coming down when we move any advice on how to handle these crazy people.
His mom is crazy totally crazy and his dad isn’t far behind, I often wonder how he is so normal. His baby nursery is still exactly the same. With toys, clothes, etc. He will be 26 this year. His mom sends care packages in the mail every week for him. I get an email every week reminding me to check my mail. Then I get nasty emails when UPS loses them or they don’t arrive on time. Before I moved in to our new apartment she rented a truck and decorated my entire apartment with items I nicely told her we didn’t need. Broken furniture, rusted dishes, and stained sheets. She cried when I had items donated to Salivation Army (she is a hoarder).
I’m nice and respectful to her I have never been mean or rude. I took her home shopping before our move in date so she could feel included. I use to make phone calls to her. I use to talk to her almost every day. It had to stop because she was stressing me out with her rudeness.
After being harassed through my work email by her, my boyfriend finally put his foot down and told her to stop. A couple days after that, I get an email from her on my personal account, about my thyroid cancer. I had thyroid cancer in high school, I had it removed, and I go to the doctor every 6 months to have my hormone levels checked. It’s a big deal and a big part of my life. She knows that.
She sends me an email explaining that a friend of hers has throat cancer (different than thyroid cancer) and that the doctor told him it was from HPV. She wants to know if my thyroid cancer was caused by HPV and if I have been vaccinated for it and informs me she wants my boyfriend to get vaccinated for HPV. After crying and cooling down for a few hours. I email her back nicely and respectfully and told her my medical history is private even though I have openly discussed my cancer before. I also informed her HPV was a sexually transmitted disease and, no, thyroid cancer was not caused by that and that she needed to do a little more research. I then told her if my boyfriend was concerned about something like that then I and he needed to have a private conversation. She emailed me back telling me she was just trying to send me good information and that I took it the wrong way.
She is not allowed to email me ever again. After that I blocked her on facebook. She doesn’t work or have hobbies or friends because she is mean to everyone. All she does is stalk us on the internet and emails constantly. My future father in law is also a jerk that’s a whole other story though but yes they are still together. We are about to move into a new apartment in a few weeks and there is still some of the furniture that I didn’t want or need in our apartment. They are coming down when we move any advice on how to handle these crazy people.
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