Am I Going Crazy??I have never been here before. I've never shared anything online before. I'm not even a good writer. The reason I'm sharing my story here is because I might go totally nuts if I don't.
I got married last year and moved in with my husband. He discussed that his parents are going to visit us from their country and stay with us for a while before we got married.
After I moved in with him, His parents came to stay with us. I thought it's just a visit and then I found out that It's not. They changed the house as they want. They act like they own the house cuz My husband who bought the house is their son. Especially my mother in law, she treated my husband like a little boy and interfering with every parts of my life. My husband bought them a car which is ten times expensive than the car we are using.
Yes, My husband is a ma ma boy. He called his mum everyday from work.
My MIL and FIL intend to live here for the rest of their lives. They even babysit their grandchildren, My sister In law's children everyday here. I have an exam to sit this summer but I couldn't study one bit.
At first I tried to be nice. Treated them as my own parents cuz mine have already passed away. But she took it as I'm afraid of her and acted like she's the queen of the house. She doesn't like to see us hugging or kissing either. I cannot believe it. when She saw that we hugged or kissed she acted and talked childishly like " What is wrong with you two" jammed the bedroom door.
I'm so tired and fed up of her. When I told my husband about that. he said we are going to rent an apartment cuz we just bought the house and we cannot afford another right now. He wants to give this house to his mummy and Daddy. Can you Believe it. we have to pay like 3000 $ a month for the next 20 to 30 years for that house. and we are going to rent a small apartment??
He's still calling his mum every day. talked like 10 mins during his lunch break.
I cannot take this anymore.
What should I do? I won't make much money cuz I'm studying for the exam for a couple of years. I trusted him.
I'm going crazy. I love my husband but I cannot tolerate the way he handle things or the way he talk with his mum.
and Above all, I hate that woman. Yes, I said it, I hate my MIL.
Please somebody talk to me.