I Just Ignore My Mother In Law
As many of you may remember, I used to put up lots of postings in this forum. Now I am much happier because I have discovered the best way of living with my evil mother-in-law: I JUST IGNORE HER!
What's the point of fighting with negative people like her? I have better things to direct my energy toward!
When my mother in law need help, which is very often because she is very useless, she had better be able to get a hold of her son...which is very difficult because he is a doctor and often on call and can't leave in the middle of work. I just won't help her. I have nothing to do with her. She had made her feelings about me perfectly clear, and I feel there's no need for me to have anything to do with people who hate me.
My marriage is MUCH better now that I have put my MIL out of my mind, and out of my life! I no longer fight with my husband about her. I don't care to know anything about how she is doing these days. Even if I have holiday meals with her I feel no need to acknowledge her existance at the table.
For those of us who suffer from awful MILs: do what I do, I gaurantee that you will be much happier in life! Afterall, it's more important for us to stay strong and take care of ourselves, rather than trying to compromise and being unhappy all the time!