My Step-mother. And Maybe My Mother A Little.

My mother should have put more thought into who I would go to when she died. Had she done so, she would have found out that the people she doomed me to in her will would be terrible "parents"

My step-mother I do hate although I don't think I allow her to affect my life anymore. I am indifferent really.

It took me a long time, but I realize that everything she said to me, that I would never amount to anything, that I was a failure, that I was a ****, that I was fat, she was saying about herself, because none of it was true about me. A kid doesn't understand mental illness, so they believe these things, but thankfully now I know this, and know none of it was true.

To all of you who have experienced the same thing, realize this. It's NOT about you. It's about THEM. What they are saying to you, they are hating in themselves.
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2 Responses May 19, 2011

I am still young and living a fresh life,except for my sister. A the attention was turn on me. I always drink a lot of milk(witch is why I grow on a instant rate),I am a great artist for my age and I get along people. However she is always getting yelled at. My mom says she drinks way too much coffee. She is way to short. I live with a mother that only likes boys. She is sexist,she thinks i am superior,but am just a average kid.I do have problem.I can get really mad and crazy sometimes. So no one really is a lowlife. She is just another one of those argnorant human beings that forgot the some people like her,can only learn though true consequences.

I'm so glad that you realized that her comments are about her as a person and nothing that you deserved.<br />
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Spiteful people lash out and feel better when they have hurt another human being.<br />
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Hope you can forget about this toxic person.