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It'll Never Change.

My mother was a cheater and that is the main reason I hate her guts. She broke my finger when u was three. Cheated on my dad when I was four. He made my childhood terrible. I was so young that i didn't understand why my dad would do something so mean like kick the mother I loved so much out of our house. I cried every single day for hours and hours because I missed her. But now that I'm older, I finally understand. She cheated on my dad and she had been for years. Ad he's still with that loser. Her boyfriend is worthless. He thinks he's superior over me and he can make me do whatever like he's some god. An my mother will never see anything wrong with him. She moved back in with me an my dad almost a year ago and I haven't hated her more any more in my life. She won't feed me and she always tells me how lazy I am when all she does is lay in bed all day and watch whatever new movie she's decided to buy. I just can't stand her anymore.
Emmabellaa Emmabellaa 13-15 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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"She won't feed me and she always tells me how lazy I am when all she does is lay in bed all day and watch whatever new movie she's decided to buy. I just can't stand her anymore."<br />
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I think that you have realized your mama cannot provide for you...and that she resents your very existence because you can provide for yourself. It is astonishing and difficult to learn that some people willfully DON'T WANT TO LEARN or improve. My mother is one of those who expends TEN times more energy on PREVENTING a problem from being solved than accepting anyone else's solution, let alone encouraging anyone from SEEKING a solution. If and when you suggest a solution, or even attempt to assess the problem, you are IMMEDIATELY THE CAUSE of the problem!! I have survived...sometimes to my own detriment nearly 6 decades of my own mother's vitriolic laments...I was the one who CAUSED my grandfather to molest me when I was 6...I was the one who CAUSED my father to break my arm when I was 6. I was the one who CAUSED a legal issue with my disabled sibling when I took a job in Europe when I was 28 years old...and guess what: I find men who blame and punish me for problems in their lives....problems that occurred before we even met!<br />
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My point is this: do not define yourself by the blame that others lay on you!

has she stoled any of your money???????