I Do Feel Negatively About HerMy mother is a person that loves to hurt people to the core. It is quite strange to me to want to hurt the people you love the most. She has done so to all of her husbands (3), sisters (5)...she told me a story about how she made her sister take off her skates...then she put them on and stomped on her baby sister's bare feet. She felt completely justified..."she was wearing my skates!"
She has regularly ridiculed me on a variety of levels...apparently, I am fat, ugly, stupid, etc, etc. I am actually not fat, or ugly, or stupid.
I recently married after my husband and I have had several years together. I mentioned to her my desire to have children one day. She said I would not be able to have kids because I am "a sad human being". "I don't deserve kids", according to her.
I feel bad, but I know it's not me...its more her issue. It just hurts.
Thanks for listening!