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i am so over my parents. them constantly taking away my rights and freedom and constantly ruining my life i just cant deal with it anymore.  i just want to live my life and not have to constantly have them on my back taking my phone and making it so i HAVE NO LIFE.  i just cannot wait till i can move out and live my own god dam life.

brr617 brr617 16-17 88 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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My mother is a ******* ***** and I hate her with a burning passion. I consistently get high grades, part of the team A varsity team training everyday and head of an organization although she wont let me go to parties. I get so stressed all the ******* time in school and all im asking for is a break during weekends but no, she wont ******* let me out. I'm 16 now and everytime i try to reason out with her, she just says that i have to live with her decisions and that im too young for those. She keeps telling me to wait for the right age, like even after college. What the **** is that? We're teenagers and we're meant to have fun while we still have no responsibilities or work and all that!!!! I know my limits. It just annoys me how I was allowed out more when i was 14/15 compared to now. I may have broken their trust once by getting home drunk although i have been trying my best to gain their trust back and i never lie about anything anymore. It's been more than a year. My dad understands me and i truly love him, he even covers for me sometimes when my mom gets mad. My mom is just a psycho ***** who wants everything to go her way. She keeps saying that her generation was not like this and when she was my age, she didnt go out at all. Well too ******* bad IM NOT IN HER GENERATION and this is how the culture of my school is. She enrolled me to this school and she has to accept the fact that high schoolers go out and party a lot. She just NEVER understands me and it gets so frustrating sometimes i cant even explain. Im so jealous of my other friends who can just talk to their moms about anything and everytjing. I cant count the times i've wished i had a different mom, although i wish i dont. It's just the way things are and it's getting really hard for me sometimes. Last year, she grounded me on the day of MY BIRTHDAY so i couldnt even go out and watch a concert with my friends. My birthdays are always ****** cause of her. She keeps telling me that this is for my "own good" and that i will thank her one day but shes ******* wrong — i will forever hate her for taking my teenage years away from me and i will never ever do the same to my future kids. Instead of RESTRICTING THEM, why not just GUIDE THEM right?? Im so sick of everytjing. She always just makes me really unhappy.

My parents do the same exact thing. They always think they are right and if I don't listen to them then, they take away my phone, disconnect my tv and other things. But I always get them back by outsmarting them, like if they disconnect my tv, I pretend I'm upset about it and then turn it back on, or if they take my phone, I use my iPod to find it, or if they take something then I always find it,so you should just try outsmarting them, it will definitely work and then you will seem like you're unstoppable.
Hope this helps:)

I was once hung (With a rope around my neck) as punishment for sitting on the couch, and you think your parents have problems?

That's abuse you should report that

U called that "taking away ur life"? My parents once hung me up side down and beat me because I didn't make their bed perfectly

That's also abuse you should report that

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Unlike most of you here I don't hate my parents. I love them, but I sure as hell hate living with them. My parents are catholic and old fashioned. They swear they know everything about life but they don't, they haven't even let themselves live and experience yet bc of their mentality, all they know is what they see on the news, which ofc is bad so they shelter me and never let me out of the house. I'm 17 and never once in my life been to a party, I'm not one for parties so I don't really care, but I've asked for the hell of it and the answer is always no. I've never done any drugs, or drank, I've never had sex, hell I've never even had a boyfriend, I keep straight a's, yet they refuse to grant me with the least bit of freedom. I've been friends with my best friend for 11 years and I'm not even allowed to sleep over, what is that? They're like you don't know what could happen, you could be raped. They know her parents, prob as well as it know my best friend. What they say is ridiculous, I'm not even allowed to stay over at other family members house. I once got asked out and they told me that they have to meet the guy and go with me on every date, if I ever wanted to go to his house to meet his parents I'd have to take my mom, I'm 17, wth is that? I don't want them to meet a guy if I don't even know if I like him yet, needless to say nothings happening with that guy. My parents get mad bc I don't like to clean, I know how to clean and cook I'd just rather not to. When I told them that when I'm older I wasn't gonna be the one to clean, they told me my husband was gonna beat me up bc of it. That no man would stand me, that no man would want a woman who can clean, that I'm never going to get the career I want, that I'll never be in a position in which I can hire a housekeeper. What parents tell their child that their husband is gonna beat them up bc they don't like to clean? It's Fourth of July today, we were supposed to go to the beach but now we can't bc I got my period, I looked it up online and it said to use tampons and that you can use them if you're a virgin. I told my mom she got furious, and kept questioning me on whether or not I've had sex, she wouldn't let it go. She said that tampons are only for women who have sex, that I'll lose my virginity and no man will want to marry me bc of it. They bug me about my weight and make me feel insecure, all they do is offend me and focus on my bad but never the good. Out of my four other siblings I'm the one with the most promising future, yet my mom told me to my face that I am her worst child. Me, the one who will actually do something with her life. They never tell me they're proud of me or appraise me for the good I've done, they seem to only focus on the bad. I'll be 18 in 6 months, and next summer I'm going to a college that is 6 hours away, I just need to leave already. My parents say I'm going far away so that all I can do is have sex and do drugs, they are incapable of believing that I just want a good education and to not be surrounded by their negativity. All my friends have a good relationship with their parents and it makes me incredibly jealous bc I will never have that with them. Last night my dad said I was a maniac and that he didn't know what I was waiting for to get out of my house. I want nothing more than to leave, I feel sorry for my siblings who have to endure their stupidity and negativity. They are close minded and stubborn, they are the type of people who believe women stay home and clean and men work. They are the perfect example of what I do not want to do with my life. I am grateful for everything they've very done for me and I love them more than I should, but I would rather die than raise my kids the way they raised me.

Here's the sitch. I've had this problem with self harm for a while and I've been making an effort to stop lately. I've only had two relapses in 7 months. However one of those relapses was a few days ago and my mom just checked me. So I was supposed to go to this party tonight and my mother won't allow me to go. She says it's punishment for my relapse but I don't understand why they choose to punish me for my self harm instead of making an effort to talk to me or get me a shrink. I know what I did hurt her but that wasn't my intention. Why do you think she is punishing me and what is the best course of action for me to take?

This is so me oh my gosh. You were probably a teenager when you wrote this so I am assuming now you are are like 22ish. Plus you prob won't read this but hi I'm 16 and this is so relatable. My parents don't let me do anything and I even currently have my phone taken as I type this. They are so overprodective and I can't wait to move out. I can't stand them and their so-called parenting skills. They are literally crazy and I want nothing to do with them. I don't mean to sound like a snotty cliche teenager but these are the facts. Its freaking spring break and I'm not even allowed out of the damn house. Wow ok I am done. If you read all of this, thanks for listening to me vent.

**** I hate my parents
All they do is refuse to let me go out and then whenever I do ask to go to a party or whatever my dad takes me into the basement and used to beat me with a stick

I also hate my parents, they bought me a new laptop but then when I do bad stuffs they take it away -_- every f*cking time. some times I need my fvking laptop for my hw but I cant use it coz my parents have them. Fvck my life. ! my laptop is my only freedom, they are lucky because im not like other kids or teens dat smoke take drugs or go to parties and drunk all night, but me? Im just inside my room just to play or do browsing stuffs, but they take it away from me. They cant stop me from yelling at them because they stole my freedom. Like WTF? do you think I'll be happy? fvck it. I love my parents but I hate them from taking all my rights. FVCK ! btw Im already turning 16 and Im about to go to college but they treat me like a 5 yrs old. see? fvck my life.

You sound like a spoiled brat

and you sound like an ignorantasshole

HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT TO THAT POOR KID WHO JUST WANTS TO LIVE HIS/HER OWN LIFE?!? Brbkms is totally right; who the **** are you to judge?! You are a really horrible, selfish, stuck-up, smug, judgmental assclown who doesn't care about anyone but yourself! Plus, calling that poor kid a "spoiled brat" just because he/she is simply crying for help/just wants freedom is just OUTRAGEOUS!!! WHAT THE **** KIND OF POINT ARE YOU TRYING TO MAKE?!? I've just properly reported you, so STOP TROLLING AND GO SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!

WHAT THE HECK DUDE THIS IS MY LIFE STORY!!!!!! i am 16 too, i received a nice macbook for my birthday but I'm technically not even allowed to use it for pleasure reasons, only for school. and they even take it away when i need it for hw! then they get mad when i yell at them about it but they can't take anything more away from me so i really don't care. its so ******* annoying like what the hell I've never smoked or had sex or any of that **** but yet they treat like a damn prisoner. like what the hell did i do to deserve this! i have no sort of freedom and i basically live prison cell so i can relate 100%. whenever you feel down, just remember, at least you're not me.

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i hate my parents with a burning passion! I know anything about the outside world at all cuz im sheltered! i have to hide stuff from them just to keep in contact with family... I cant be myself around them... I have to pretend to be tht teenager that they want me to be... But thats not me! And they dont even support what i do at all! Not even my decissions or choices! I cant live at home at all anymore!

I hate my parents too, fair enough they grounded me at the end of last summer cause I got drunk at a Party and stuff but still 6 months is too long! But I didn't complain and I stayed in and missed all the party's and things for 6 months! After a month of freedom, I go into town with my friends and one of them
Gets hurt! I wasn't even there! Now apparently 'I can't chose friends' and 'I am putting my self in danger' so they grounded me again for another 6 Months! Are you joking! I didn't even do anything wrong and all my other friends who were actually there when he got hurt aren't grounded at all! I am wth!?! I hate them so much I want to leave home all the time! 12 months that's a f****** year of my life gone! I'm 15 in a week they need tiger over themselves FFS.

really are you ******* serious you are turning 15 and you are angry your dads grounded you for getting drunk at your ******* age. dude/gal you seriously have to start thinking better you deserved that one but the one of your friends yeah its a bad one from your parents but hell everyone does mistakes like the one you did with the alcohol. Im not saying you should be a saint hell no, make your mistakes learn about life but know that with every dumb turn you do there are consequences right now those consequences are the grounding and those things but later when you dont have your parents those consequences will not be a simple no going out to parties or no going out, NO bro/sis enjoy life but dont throw it to the garbage. we are all tooo young to be depressed but at the same time we are in the age that one big mistake can make your life change in a really bad way.

My parents bought me a laptop for a Christmas present, every so often they would have this tantrum and take my laptop away cause they feel like it! I done my hw helped clean things but they still do everything to take my freedom away. They never say Thank You instead they want more.

I know what your feeling,my parents treat me like a slave

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG. my mom and uncle let me get my license, get a car, and insurance. The only problem is that they got me a STICK(manual). The only way I can drive is by learning, and they aren't teaching me. Now that I went threw all that ****, I'm not even able to drive.
Now all of the sudden, they don't want me to hang out with my friends because they think it's dangerous or whatever. I practically cry everyday because I have to reject my friends and they think that I hate them. I just wish I could find someone else with this problem, and like talk to them. UGHHHHH. It's not fair.

dude... we have the sane life... i also hate my parents.. they always take or they always get my happiness.. and they take my freedom... hate them

Parents can be VERY retarded. I'm 14. Trust me. My Mom's Dead, but, I live with my pops. Tru$t me.

I read some of your responses, i'm preety much just like most of you. I just look at it and I hope we remember all these things one day and be better parents. Better than them.

well.........!!!! i understand your problem....your parents is not good of doing all these..it is too much bad...& i wonder that how you are affording all this......leave your parents if they dont loves you.....you can create your own life...where there is no one who commands on you. only thinking....could not give you anything..go....step ahead.....and make your own life......ok let me tell you something about my life...i'm girl of 15........i want to leave my home cuzz....I dont want to stay there any more.I have soo many problems in my life. The Big problem iz related to my parents..... i dont like them...cuzz they dont alow me to go out with friends..even.....the nearest place to our house......... nor even alone.....my whole day is passed in my room.....i dont have freedom at all ....whenever me and my friends make plan .....of going somewhere.......i never get permitted by my parents.......they dont like that...i go out with friends.......they want me to stay at home.........can any one ...pass their whole life in home.Just i go 2 collage .at morning ,then nowhere.Even on weekend i cant go out ...so..in view of all these ..how can i satisfie with my life....i am facing all this for many years . but i think that now is the time to take some action.........i hv planned that i'll leave my house...& I'll create my own life....where there is no one...who commands on me....& i think it is possible...it is surely possible......but some times i think....that it will be more better ...if i have a girl partner with me .....so tell me....do you want to go with me........we can start afresh.....& i'm saying you...cuzz after leaving my home....i'll leave my country as well....& i'll shift in a safest country...of the world......but..... there i dont know anyone.......& also m going alone...so...dont you think.....that a girl feel safe when someone is with her.....& in other words........if a girl want safety she needs a company.....so now the decission is up to you....tell me if yes........

Same here, my dads a jerk he drunk all the time wastes of the little money we have on cigarietts and he complain about EVERYTHING I do and he never leaves me alone, he also calls me bad names..:(

dont hate your parents, hate their personality, background, understanding of religion, fanaticism and views of life..

I'm 16 male and my parents have refused me to go out at all!!! for parties. this is now gonna drive me back to cutting - easier than breaking my fists or destroying everythin' in the house

Parents/ dont even like there kids to be in a good position, patuality , ego ..!!!! no responsibilites taken for there kids...

I hate my parents too , my mums always judging me , calling me names and I'm tired of it I wish sometimes I cud just live in a hostel or something just to get me out of there, I have ran away from it several times I just don't know what to do anymore.

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

well.........!!!! i
understand your
problem....your parents
is not good of doing all
these..it is too much
bad...& i wonder that
how you are affording
all this......leave your
parents if they dont
loves you.....you can
create your own
life...where there is no
one who commands on
you. only
thinking....could not
give you
anything..go....step
ahead.....and make your
own life......ok let me
tell you something about
my life...i'm girl of
15........i want to leave
my home cuzz....I dont
want to stay there any
more.I have soo many
problems in my life. The
Big problem iz related to
my parents..... i dont
like them...cuzz they
dont alow me to go out
with
friends..even.....the
nearest place to our
house......... nor even
alone.....my whole day
is passed in my
room.....i dont have
freedom at
all ....whenever me and
my friends make
plan .....of going
somewhere.......i never
get permitted by my
parents.......they dont
like that...i go out with
friends.......they want
me to stay at
home.........can any
one ...pass their whole
life in home.Just i go 2
collage .at morning ,then
nowhere.Even on
weekend i cant go
out ...so..in view of all
these ..how can i satisfie
with my life....i am
facing all this for many
years . but i think that
now is the time to take
some action.........i hv
planned that i'll leave
my house...& I'll create
my own life....where
there is no one...who
commands on me....& i
think it is possible...it is
surely possible......but
some times i
think....that it will be
more better ...if i have a
girl partner with
me .....so tell me....do
you want to go with
me........we can start
afresh.....& i'm saying
you...cuzz after leaving
my home....i'll leave my
country as well....& i'll
shift in a safest
country...of the
world......but..... there i
dont know
anyone.......& also m
going alone...so...dont
you think.....that a girl
feel safe when someone
is with her.....& in other
words........if a girl want
safety she needs a
company.....so now the
decission is up to
you....tell me if
yes........

well.........!!!! i
understand your
problem....your parents
is not good of doing all
these..it is too much
bad...& i wonder that
how you are affording
all this......leave your
parents if they dont
loves you.....you can
create your own
life...where there is no
one who commands on
you. only
thinking....could not
give you
anything..go....step
ahead.....and make your
own life......ok let me
tell you something about
my life...i'm girl of
15........i want to leave
my home cuzz....I dont
want to stay there any
more.I have soo many
problems in my life. The
Big problem iz related to
my parents..... i dont
like them...cuzz they
dont alow me to go out
with
friends..even.....the
nearest place to our
house......... nor even
alone.....my whole day
is passed in my
room.....i dont have
freedom at
all ....whenever me and
my friends make
plan .....of going
somewhere.......i never
get permitted by my
parents.......they dont
like that...i go out with
friends.......they want
me to stay at
home.........can any
one ...pass their whole
life in home.Just i go 2
collage .at morning ,then
nowhere.Even on
weekend i cant go
out ...so..in view of all
these ..how can i satisfie
with my life....i am
facing all this for many
years . but i think that
now is the time to take
some action.........i hv
planned that i'll leave
my house...& I'll create
my own life....where
there is no one...who
commands on me....& i
think it is possible...it is
surely possible......but
some times i
think....that it will be
more better ...if i have a
girl partner with
me .....so tell me....do
you want to go with
me........we can start
afresh.....& i'm saying
you...cuzz after leaving
my home....i'll leave my
country as well....& i'll
shift in a safest
country...of the
world......but..... there i
dont know
anyone.......& also m
going alone...so...dont
you think.....that a girl
feel safe when someone
is with her.....& in other
words........if a girl want
safety she needs a
company.....so now the
decission is up to
you....tell me if
yes........

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

i hate my parents to they dnt let me do nothing i want kill them they dnt let me go nowhere i cant even walk to my grandmas who lives 3 blocks down and my dad thinks its funny he says no cause he could no because i did something wrong i want to cut his throat in his sleep

my mums a b*****! not only am i not allowed to go out with my friends, i cnt eve f****ing go to school on saturday for revision for my f****ing GCSE exam !!!!!!!!!!!! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

i know exactly how you feel. its the same for me. and when i do something they over exaggereate and ground me for long times. i named my dad sissy on my phone and i dont have my phone or ipod for a month. and prom and my school orlando trip are coming up! im so scared for them not to let me go. my parents make me hate life and i truly wish they died the worst death possible. to all those people saying we dont know what we are saying and that we will understand our parents later on.... shut the **** up because you probably never went through what we are going through. im 13 i 8th grade and they still treat me like a child. c'mon im about o go to HIGHSCHOOL! i think i would be happier living in a foster home! ughhhhhhhhhh! i hate them

I knw what u mean ... I'm not allowed to watch movies on T.V .. i'm not allowed to sit n my room and write my diaries .. every few moments they're checking me ... I WANT TO LIVE! they interfere in every single thing in my life! ... I feel jealous of my friends who say "i love my parents"

All i want to do is go out with my friends its feels like i am in prisoin tbh all there care is about them selves i wish i werent cba with them taking what my slibing does on me that im going do its sucks i just hate life atm and there just make it woser

That's exactly how I feel, I have no privacy and no space either. They will not leave me alone they have to know who i am out with, and if they don't know them then thats to ******* bad for me. I swear to god I want to kill them sometimes, they **** me off so much cutting off my freedom and making my life a living hell. I have told them that on my 18th birthday they wont see me in the morning because I will already be gone, living my dreams and being free. They said thats fine with them and that untill i turn 18 i am a stupid little girl who knows nothing about life.

guys, your life is heaven comparing to me, I wish i have your lifes, you hate your parents just becouse they dont let you go out. my life is worse than hell, i am an arabian, and my parents are stricked arabians, I have been regulary beaten since i was 6 and the arabian law allows that , i have never talked to a girl before 15 cuz if my parents knew that the would kill me (they are cruel muslims) and in islam if you had a relation with a girl you will get whiped (100 strong slashes), and you will get no mercy. my body is full of scars of my childhood, i am now 16, last year i made a stand, when i was being beaten i defended my self bushed my f@#ken father away(I have an extreamly strong body) so my father fall down, then i went up to my room, my parents ttook everythingh my phone, my laptop,my xbox. but i didnt obay, i took everythink i have and ran out. I stayed out for 2 weeks, when the police found me, me father and my mother tried to make me cry i didnt the felt tired while i was still laughing. now i am living in my room, making profit by online surveys and fortex , i got professional at it. dont hate your parents cuz the care about you, believe me, you are in heaven

well urrm your a boy tbh im a girl i have it worse

guys, your life is heaven comparing to me, I wish i have your lifes, you hate your parents just becouse they dont let you go out. my life is worse than hell, i am an arabian, and my parents are stricked arabians, I have been regulary beaten since i was 6 and the arabian law allows that , i have never talked to a girl before 15 cuz if my parents knew that the would kill me (they are cruel muslims) and in islam if you had a relation with a girl you will get whiped (100 strong slashes), and you will get no mercy. my body is full of scars of my childhood, i am now 16, last year i made a stand, when i was being beaten i defended my self bushed my f@#ken father away(I have an extreamly strong body) so my father fall down, then i went up to my room, my parents ttook everythingh my phone, my laptop,my xbox. but i didnt obay, i took everythink i have and ran out. I stayed out for 2 weeks, when the police found me, me father and my mother tried to make me cry i didnt the felt tired while i was still laughing. now i am living in my room, making profit by online surveys and fortex , i got professional at it. dont hate your parents cuz the care about you, believe me, you are in heaven

same thing as me. Im just so mad i cant just murder them now

i hate my parents with a burning passion i cant do this anymore two more years and im out!! they are going to regret treating me like this, and if they dont believ me just watch the day i leave and dont come back is the day you'll ******* realize all the **** you put me through. also stop taking my **** for no reason like wtf if i have attitude its for a reason if u want me to calm down and not give u so much of it talk to me dont just take all my **** anyway its my **** i bought it you have NO legal right to take it!!! and if u give me attitude ill give it back u keep saying if i do this i wont win and u end up taking my **** well ***** if i really wanted to win i could go to the councelar and tell them all the **** just see that in a few days u'll end up in court so please ***** dont tempt me cuz you dont know what im capable of. so keep trying me cuz mom, dad watch out cuz everything u know and might have know is hanging all in a tread and lets just say i have scissors. so pleas give me back my ****!!!!!! i cant take this you dont let me out u dont talk to me you ignore me when im sick you tell me to deal with iut and you dont even check if its bad i swear if i were to get a broken anything you'll probably say oh just take care of that or you'll be wtf see what u get ur self into and blame it on me i bet that if i were to leave u wouldnt even notice but my final wards are just this **** YOU!!!!!!!

i ******* hate my mutherfucking parents big *** ***** they can go do a blow job looking ***** i swearing i wouldve buck them they give my bro liike 400 dollers and they dont even give me 30 wtf ***** *** mfers

i ******* hate my mutherfucking parents big *** ***** they can go do a blow job looking ***** i swearing i wouldve buck them they give my bro liike 400 dollers and they dont even give me 30 wtf ***** *** mfers

Wow do I feel you I am 20! yes TWENTY years old and I am a junior in college.. I have no phone (bc it gets taken away every day) and I havent been allowed to drive my car in months. RIDICULOUS. I am not 5 years old I'm not allowed to go out for any of my friends 21st birthdays, they want to take my ID and all that stupid sh*t. I wake up to getting screamed at every morning, and after hours of yelling I finally get them to shutup then theyll go do something nice like make me breakfast its f*cking stupid. I dont want anything to do with them and doing nice things on top of the sh*tty things are not going to make me want to like them again. They are destroying my life. i have to live at home and commute to school via train now which is much harder (did I mention I go to pharmacy school) My friend all have apts at school and I'm not allowed to even go to boston where its located and stay or go to someones house unless im going to class, thats the only time Im allowed to go there. I'm not a bad kid, but I get into trouble here and there and that would be due to the fact that all I want to do is rebel all the time just bc I cant do what everyone else can. If your parents are like mine they are going to keep telling you every year oh next year when youre older itll be better i promise everything will get better. Well I'm 20 and I have more rules than I had when I was 14 and thats not even half of the bad stuff that goes on here. IT SUCKS. (sorry if i rambled just couldnt agree more)

That's nothing compared to me. My parents hit me for no reason and I ******* hate that b I t c h and I want her to rot in he'll. I wished I was the child she aborted. Because the next time she hits me. I'm moving with my ****** father

i honestly couldnt care about a cell phone, but my parents wont even help me with the process of getting a real job. HELLO im freaking disabled here, i have trouble with that stuff. <br />
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i dont think that it is parents in general that are like this, its just that the older you get, the MORE LIKELY you are to be an a**hole. so yah, im with you.

i honestly couldnt care about a cell phone, but my parents wont even help me with the process of getting a real job. HELLO im freaking disabled here, i have trouble with that stuff. <br />
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i dont think that it is parents in general that are like this, its just that the older you get, the MORE LIKELY you are to be an a**hole. so yah, im with you.

to be honnest i start it to hate my parents i always get blamed for every thing they don't listen to me and i just can't go out of the house without one of them i want them in my life but i just want them to keep there noses out of my buttm

OMG I KNOW HOW ALL OF YOU GUYS FEEL !!!! I hate my ******* parents with a passion. My grandma abuses me and when I defend myself I'm the one thats wrong...wtf. Me and my "sister" 2 weeks ago were fighting and she hit me first ! Tell me she went downstairs and as soon as she went into the room my grandparents were in she started to CRY.........and you wanna know what? I got HIT....4 DEFENDING MYSELF??????? WTF IS WRONG WITH THEM?? I can't wait til I get 18 and move the **** out ! I'm going to e the best parent then they'll ever will be. I swear it. I'm 15 and I've got 3 more years in this hell hole :). I think that everyone here that posted a comment about how ****** their parents are will be the BEST and COOLEST parents the world has ever seen...hang in there guys ! I'll be right beside you guys all the way :) !

My parents have taken away my phone so many times it's a joke. <br />
Like I was severely depressed and they didn't give t back.<br />
I ******* hate my parents too. <br />
We gotta stay strong sweetie. <br />
Xx sam

I have something differences. I don't live with them, but I do hate enough to feel up set even if see only phone number in my cell phone occur. How should I do? I do not have any trust, I grew up with my granny. She never said something bad to them, but they always blame my granny. They show that they have the rights over me to blame me or treat me as they want. I do hate them, I do hate him

Rah I hate my mum so much, she's always against me! She agrees to everything my little sister has to say! Plus I don't even live will my mum but everytime I see her it's a war... I have no idea what to do?! She dosnt buy me anything she dosnt even give me pocket money because she believes my dad should pay everything--WTF! And then when come to her house she obliges me to help her clean and ****, and in return for NOTHING. Like inthe shops she won't even buy me an apple, shes like " You will remember to pay me back". My arse I will. I don't consider her as my mother anymore.

i ******* hate my parents they took all my electronics when i was 15 beacuase of two c.they always overreact

my parents r soo evil! i was going to hang out with ppl but then i called my brother a butt and then my dad started yelling at me and getting in my face and screaming. my mom was doing my brothers science project FOR HIM. and they were using my computer. i closed down a windo to get to facebook and then i got in even more trouble. i walked to the park because i just couldnt handle it anymore. i coundlt handle my parents, my brother or my life. my dad told me that it was really hard to live with me and they didnt know how they were suposed to live with a girl like me. and i get straight a's and you think they would be proud. my mom slapped me really hard then babying my little brother whos nine. its like im the evil one in the family who dosent fit in. my brother was moking me and pretendind to shoot me with a fake gun behin my parents back when they were yelling at me. i hate my life

SOME OF THESE COMMENTS SOUND PRETTY BAD BUT C'MON GUYS GIVE THEM A BREAK IT'S CALLED BEING A PARENT

i know what you mean. my parents are total control freaks. my mom pretends that she is trying to help me then starts to threaten to take everything i have away if i do not do as she says.

Today I'm 24 years old, I had one of the s**ttiest parents in the world, they forced me into boarding school when I did nothing and would threat me every step of the way if I validly fought for my freedom. Fortunately I escaped that and got some good revenge and now live successfully and happily, so listen carefully cause I been where you been:<br />
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Because you young and they're older, they might make you believe you are wrong and they are right. They lived longer then you and have authority so unfortunately the world says their BS is right and you wrong. Want to know the real truth here it is: IT'S WRONG COMPLETELY!!! Parents abuse the authority to their liking and make you do what makes them feel better. Your parents decided to be sucky people who have zero concept of cool and that suckiness that you have to live with them makes it your fault, while you have to see other kids being more popular living their awesome life because they got freedom thanks to the fortunate they have that their parents are cool. I'm sorry you got to go through this, it sucks, it really sucks. If you want more help on how to escape their BS feel free to shoot me a message.

my parents are just straight up retarted. they live in the present but they act like its the past. Their so annoying

i know exactly how you feel, and i hate it a sometimes wish i could move out now too! we never do family days or anything, i hardly get to see my friends... i know that they people say parents do these things because they love you but if they love they could at least listen to what i want to say and do and i want more independence to be free in life and experiment different things to have fun.. i hate just sitting in my room you know... :(

i know exactly how you feel, and i hate it so bad sometimes i wish i could move out now too! we never do family days or anything, i hardly get to see my friends... i know that people say parents do these things because they love you but if they really love me they could at least listen to what i want to say and do and i want more independence to be free in life and experiment different things to have fun.. i hate just sitting in my room you know... :(

i know exactly how you feel, and i hate it so bad sometimes i wish i could move out now too! we never do family days or anything, i hardly get to see my friends... i know that people say parents do these things because they love you but if they really love me they could at least listen to what i want to say and do and i want more independence to be free in life and experiment different things to have fun.. i hate just sitting in my room you know... :(

ughh **** parents man! THEY SUCK!! mine are soo over protective. i smoke weed hahah and they cought me and now they wont let me go. fk mann i wish they would just not care. i have to hide everything from them. i live with my dad cuz theyre divorced. now im grounded for 6 months , i doubt it but now i cant go out, i dont got bbm anymore so i have no more entertainment, wtf am i supposed to do!!? i hate my school!! theyre all faaags n ****! i skip school sometimes to chill with friendss since its vacation n they dont haveschool but i doo . so yeh. **** my parents.

Man idk what to do i hate my parents to they dont have trust in me damm i wish i was 18 my mom idk i feel like if i'm not worth crap to her and i have a bf and hes very nice and i have been talking to him for about 2 years and a couple of months and we feel in love with eathother and idk if i should leave my house but man idk but i dont love my parents and all pero idk what to do jelp me plzzz

chutiya ha tu, just think if you are (father or mom) what to do about our child ?<br />
thoda pyar se bata sub manjaege agar nahi manege to chelana mat pyar se.<br />
jetana (girlfriend) ke leye karta ha uska 10% bhi kya na to bhi bahut ha.

chutiya ha tu, just think if you are (father or mom) what to do about our child ?<br />
thoda pyar se bata sub manjaege agar nahi manege to chelana mat pyar se.<br />
jetana (girlfriend) ke leye karta ha uska 10% bhi kya na to bhi bahut ha.

I felt the same way at your age. Both of my parents have personality disorders and refuse to get help. Ever since i was a freshman in high school i went to the school social worker and he told me to ignore them and to work towards moving out at 18. I am now almost 19 and have yet to move out, and believe me it sucks being a teen with strict parents. My best advice is to talk to an adult that is understanding and isnt very close to your parents. I have always been close to my boyfriends mother and she always listens to me when i need to talk about family issues. It has helped me realize that even though my parents arent ever happy with anything i do, I am a good person and i am going to be successful on my own. Btw to those people that commented to "get over it", obviously you dont understand what certain people are going through and i dont think you should be so cold hearted thanks...

i dont want to sound like a whiny teenager. i dont want to sound like my life is **** when other people have it so much worse than me. but you know what? im sick of my life with my parents. im sick of her trying to live her life through me. im sick of him following whatever she says and then trying to enforce his own "rules". im tired of being shut into a little hole when i know that i want to be living in a bigger world by my own life. i had someone tell me this weekend not to let anyone dictate my life for me, and i am finally going to listen. <br />
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we can live our lives. if you are too young to leave your parents like i am, hang on just a little longer. you have support. we will live our own lives soon.

i dont want to sound like a whiny teenager. i dont want to sound like my life is **** when other people have it so much worse than me. but you know what? im sick of my life with my parents. im sick of her trying to live her life through me. im sick of him following whatever she says and then trying to enforce his own "rules". im done with being a little puppet on a string that they think isnt human, that they think doesnt have its own rights. im tired of being shut into a little hole when i know that i want to be living in a bigger world by my own life. i had someone tell me this weekend not to let anyone dictate my life for me, and i am finally going to listen. <br />
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we can live our own lives. if you are too young to leave your parents like i am, hang on just a little longer. you have support. we will live as our own person soon.

My mum won't let me go anywhere, she won't let me have my own computer in my room, she keeps telling me my goals are unrealistic and that I won't make it same with my dad... Don't worry guys, i have a gut feeling that every person who suffers, and intentions for the rest of the world is good, will some how get out of the situation that they are in.<br />
Even if you don't believe in God, amen with me people<br />
AMEN!

I want to DIE because of them right now. They don't ever ecknowlege whatever I have to say. They always take away my PHONE!! I hate it.

I just want to die right now because of my parents.

i know what u feel bro, or bra.. i mean.. everytym they buy me things.. its what they want that gets bought, what size, which color, which shoes, which style! and i hate their style their style sucks! its the old 1880's style or something! and whenever i don't wear it the yscold me! and everytime they call my bro to go out and tell me to do the chores,, then seconds later im alon at home! which is what's happening now! ****! uuhh.. im still 14 and i cant wait till i get married and live my own life and have the freedom i always wanted.. i mean, they got control bout everything.. i ******* hate them.. and my frendz are all spoiled and its makes me cry every nyt coz im so jealous, wishing my friend's parents are my parents..<br />
and my dad is sooo strick about everything that my friends feel so sorry bout me, and i hate that.. and he loves my brother more than me just bcoz hes a boy..they always go to gym 2gether, and when i tr the excercises he teaches to my bro, he gets mad coz he thinks its just for boys! and my mom loves my younger sis than me just coz she didnt grow up with her(mom's abroad now), and what the hell nobody loves me except my frendz.. i just wish they were my actual siblings.. uuuhhh.. **** this life.. and im crying right now coz i ****** hate my life.. wait till i turn 18.. yeah.. you ******* parents just wait.. and btw i think they treat me this way coz they didn't want me on this earth at all, u see they were not married when mom got pregnant w/ me,, while my sblings were expected.. i fil unloved!! ******* life!!

Lol at least you have a life and friends you can go out with. I mean this ain't no big deal, you don't really need to hangout with your friends to be happy, don't you see 'em at school or something? By the way I'm sure that if they took your cellphone it was because of something you did; try to see what you do as well .

@ShaneHarper Suck it up? Belong to? You forget, kids are the future of whatever country you belong to. Treat them like ****, and they'll reflect it back on you when you're old and living in a nursing home.

Its just not easy growing up. Be patient. Your parents believe they care and are probably trying to protect you. In their ways of course. Try to negotiate.<br />
Teenage being most beautiful time in life etc is such an overstatement. Peace people!

realllly!!!! yes most of us r teens bt we NEEEEEED freedom no1 can understand n do u know it's da mst brautiful while in da age 2 b a teen bt dey made me hate it i can't hangout with ma friendz i can't but wt evr i want i can't wear wt i want dey made me hate my life !!!!!<br />
at last dey still parents we KNOW!!!!! bt we're dere kids n lots of dem dey're so much overrating can u imagine u're 14 n can't go out with ur friendz scence dey all do !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wt da ****????

i feel the same with you. there comes a time when you just can't bear with it anymore. no point in trying express my frustration.. it'll only **** me off more. what i want is results. what would happen if i were abused by my parents and called the police. would they take my parents away? would the family be broken up? would they scare them just a bit so they would just stop the abuse? no site gives me the answers to this. the only thing i've found is like court hearings, and taking away the parents custody. so could the parents be sent to jail

i now exactly how you feel, you should read my story its pretty similar

i know what you mean my mum dosent let me leave the house i have attended every day of school 4 2 yrs

ugghhh, dont i know how you feel. one time my parents took away everything i own thats electronic, just for one bad grade.

i ******* hate my parents they think they know best for me by not letting me go out with my friends now and again they are ruining my ******* childhood!!

i ******* hate my parents they think they know best for me by not letting me go out with my friends now and again they are ruining my ******* childhood!!

I think that's not as bad as what some other kids are going through. not to compare lives but my dad and mom are constantly yelling and putting me down. My dad hates me for who I am thus making me pretend to be something I'm not for the sake of not getting yelled at. I'm petrifyed of my dad and he's way bigger and way stronger so it really hurts when they call me fat (which I'm not that fat at all) or just an all out worthless moron that acts likes she's high or something. My mom just puts me down even more and I get so stressed out that I just cry and end up getting yelled at even more.

I think that's not as bad as what some other kids are going through. not to compare lives but my dad and mom are constantly yelling and putting me down. My dad hates me for who I am thus making me pretend to be something I'm not for the sake of not getting yelled at. I'm petrifyed of my dad and he's way bigger and way stronger so it really hurts when they call me fat (which I'm not that fat at all) or just an all out worthless moron that acts likes she's high or something. My mom just puts me down even more and I get so stressed out that I just cry and end up getting yelled at even more.

I know how you feel. My parents don't let me have a life. I can't go to parties. I've never been to a sleepover. I live across from my school and I can't even walk. I called my mom a b*t*h through text and got my phone taken away. Because of my parents im emo now. Great.

Be thankful that your mother didnt panel beat you. If i called my mother a ***** i would have gotten my *** kicked, lets swap mothers for a day. You will see what its like lol

Suck it up. You legally belong to your parents until you're 18. Earn their trust and then you can get negotiating rights. Everything you have is a privilege, NOT a right.

No human being belongs to another and we all have the rights to life and liberty. I am not my parents' slave because I'm not 18...

same with me....im not even aloud out of my own house....no phone.....and she wont let me even go to my best friends birthday party :( Hate hate hate her!

I know what you mean! I have dreams and goals but my parents always tell me that I won't achieve them. I really wish they could die. And I can't wait to move out of my house to live my dreams and life!<br />
Good luck to you and I hope that as soon as your out of your parents house you will be able to live your desired life and that they wont be in your back to stop you!

Damn that's just like m parents they **** me off sooooo much

i think that even tho u hate yr parents, persevere. i cant stand my step mam, but i put up with it.