Miserable By Sister In Law
My brother married the most evil witch I have ever met. When they first started dating, I really liked her a lot. I soon found out with my very own ears that she was cheating on my brother. I struggled with this for a while because I didn't want to cause any problems, but eventually out of love and concern for my brother (we have always been extremely close- we are each other's only siblings) I told him. They got into a huge fight and almost broke up over it. Somehow, she convinced my brother to believe her lies. She basically made it out to be MY FAULT! My brother has always been a little on the spineless side since birth. He fell for it. Suddenly, I was her target. She said nasty things about me to people, she convinced my brother to cut off contact with me and my parents for the most part (aside from Christmas), who had nothing to do with it. I continued to send him birthday cards and gifts, but also continued to get nothing for MY birthday in return. This soon spread to my 6 year old daughter, his only neice. She now doesnt even get so much as a phone call.
Well, she made it a point to get pregnant within two weeks of marrying my brother. She refused to let me talk to my brother when I called there several times, at one point picking up the phone and screaming, "HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO YOU, *****!!!!!!!!!!" I am now very upset with my brother for allowing her to dictate things and treat his own family this way. He does not put a stop to it, he just alienates me further. She finally spoke to me on the phone, telling me that I no longer had a brother. Quoted from her, "Just because a strand of DNA makes him related to you does not make him YOUR BROTHER, ANYMORE!!!"
She basically told me I no longer have a brother anymore. My brother is going along with this to make her happy. She has since spent so much money (most of it eating out and expensive restaraunts 3 times a day because she refuses to cook, she doesnt even boil water). She quit her job immediately after moving in with him and told everyone that she was living an absolute fairy tale life not having to work. My brother doesn't make good money and can't afford this. He is now in debt up to his eyeballs and has creditors calling and just recently lost his house to foreclosure.
She has gone on the internet with her friends posting bulletins to mutual friends about ME. Made up lies about how many men she thinks I've been with (according to the bulletin, all of them in the world except 2). Told people how I can't hold a job (yet I own my own small business which she didn't mention). How nobody likes me and what a terrible person she thinks I am.
She has made my life hell because I have lost my only sibling due to her dictation and his willingness to go along with whatever she wants. My neice has lost her uncle just because she's my daughter. I am now not getting along with my parents who have chosen to remain neutral (basically, welcoming her with open arms, hugs, kisses, the whole nine yards into their home) despite firsthand proof of what she does to me. Nobody has my back, and she is the one attacking me.
How do you get a sister in law to disappear????