My Sil Is the Devil Recarnated
My sis-in-law sucessfully managed to marry my brother . My brother is totally whipped and smitten by her petite figure and big breast. She is book smart and have a good paying job. Both my parents and I did not like her and we fought hard with my brother about it. Eventually, my brother got depressed over us not liking her at all. My parents started to feel guilty about his depression so they caved in. He is younger than me by 2 years and does not have a dominate personality, though he can be very stubborn in his own way.
They have been married for a little over 3 months now. She makes no effort to get to know me at all. I have attempted several times to hang out with her by either going shopping or to the movies, but she always comes up with some lame excuse. I addressed this to my brother, but he claims I'm making drama. His marriage to this selfish woman has nearly ruined my friendship/relationship with my only sibling.
Below is an email that she wrote to me about 1.5 weeks before the wedding:
============================================== hey [dclady]....hope you had a great weekend! there seems to be some misunderstanding about table arrangements. originally, i had just wanted jay and i to be on the stage for dinner, our own little sweathearts table (usually i hate being the center of attention, but for some reason this is really important to me). then, your parents said they wanted to sit on the stage too. so, i said ok. i understand, it's their first kids wedding, so naturally they want to be up there. i found out last week that your mom expects you to sit up on stage also. honestly, that's not what i had intended. my sister and vik are sitting with the rest of our family in the main seating area and i thought you would be doing the same. if you really want to sit on the stage with your parents, then that's fine, but my sister and vik will not be. it's not my intention to hurt your feelings, or anyone elses. it's just that my wedding day only happens once and this means a lot to me. please let me know what you decide. so much wedding stuf to deal with...i'm just tired and cannot wait to go to hawaii, when all of this is over! :) you'll completely understand what i mean when your day comes...i suggest destination wedding. that's what me and my parents were hoping for for this one, but since your family wants a big one, we agreed. oh yea, also, i've been working on seating arrangements and have included jay's friends at a table with a few of my friends. we're trying to set one of his friends up with one of my friends :) so, jay told me that two of your friends are coming and they both have a guest. is this true? just found it a little odd cuz i didn't invite any of my friends to my sister's wedding. but, let me know the whitie head count so i can include them at tables with some of my friends. that way your friends aren't stuck at a table with aunties and uncles :) don't worry, my friends are cool so they'll have a good time. thanks.
This is just the tip of the ice burg. What hurts the most is that my brother is so blinded and whipped that he doesn't see how insulting she is to me. Hey, I'm just his only sibling and sister after all!