For as long as I can remember my sister had always been a bully. I am not talking about regular sibling fights where you might hit or slap one another. She would hit, cut, and punch my mother. She has attacked family members with knives or other objects. Every time she did not get her way she would have these violent tantrums so my parents would give in. I hate my sister because to this she will not admit she did such things. She will not admit she hit my mother. It`s as if the memories were wiped clean from her mind and I am left with awful images and pain. My parents, brother, younger sister, and myself were forever changed due to her selfishness. She seem to always care more about her friends, even to this day, than her own family. She takes us for granted and although she is no longer violent she still is stubborn and always wants her way. She will yell and scream and manipulate to have things her way. She destroyed our family and parents because she always ran away or was sent to prison for assaulting other people. Yet she accepts no responsibility for any of her actions. It is difficult having a relationship with her even though I would really like too, because I have an idea of the type of sister I want and it hurts to know I would never have that type of sibling relationship with her. If any of you have advice of how to accept that she will never change or how to stop caring i would love to hear it.