I Hate My Bitchy Wife !

"I hate talking to her I hate being around her. If I say I love her she say nothing back If I hug her she pulls away saying she tired from work."

I have stopped saying I love you to her at least 10 years ago...because I don't. Don't cha love it when she pulls away. There's nothing that I could do back to her that would make her feel even half as bad as she makes me feel. What a terrific wife!

Never be fearful. Get medeival on her verbally and if she is still rude then leave her. In this bad economy women are a dime a dozen. You and you alone have the power, young Skywalker.

Fairly certain that this is the case. Looking at it from the financial security perspective and gazing deeply into the primitive stuff, women want men to do things for them in a simple cheap exchange of favors for sex. This really is at the heart of marriage and while not readily apparrent in the beginning of a relationship, it always makes it's ugly self known. I am married to one of the most gigantic ***** on the planet - don't even need to go through the details. I get through it by loving my daughter, and having friends, and a few hobbies so I can enjoy my life.

You can't control them you can only hope to contain them:
www.flowminderapp.com
Game Changer

woman are useless bitchesonly good for one thing taking mans money thats all there good at im sick of them

I will go over and biatch slap her right after i stick my hog in her azz. i love azz play

Pain2: most of us are lucky enough to be married to a woman with a fair amount of good qualities. So, if you don't mind, **** OFF IF YOU CAN'T HELP US!

I know the feeling mate what can u do when u have lovely kids to the ******* botch

I have been married for 2 years and it started out just painful. My wife is the worst alcoholic. I am 25 and I need a divorce. My wife has just been nagging and nagging since the beginning. She has 3 children that aren't mine and they all have bitchy attitudes that I can't even teach them anything. She wakes me up every night with her digusting snoring and I need my sleep because I have 2 jobs to supply for the family and her ******* drinking habits. Every night I wake up and just want to knock her out, so I decided to sleep downstairs on the couch. Then just yesterday she hit me and the face for not getting what she liked at the store. I almost hit her back but stopped myself and simply said we need a divorce. Then she starts telling me she quit alcohol and she will never do that again and that we can take classes. What the ****? Hell no I am getting a divorce I can do 100 times better then her. Plus I better end this before it gets out of hand. 2 years of that crap was enough. Sex was horrible and I don't even like her anymore. I don't even understand how I liked her in the first place. I am never going to get married again. This was the worst 2 years of my life.

I been married almost 3 years and its to the point where I just do not like my wife any more. She b*tch and complain every damn day. We have one kid together and she has 2 from previous relationships I love my son to death but I wish I never met her bitter b*itchie ***. Somedays she wants to smile and talk nice then she bitching about something else just to b*Tch about. Everytime I find a higher paying Job she b*itches about having to spend time with the kids more. Because job will have me working more hours but double the pay. I work night and when I get off I still have my son all morning even when she is off. She sleep late and I work 8 hours and want have no sleep before my next shift. Then she has the nerve to say I m boring because I don t want to go out. Maybe if I had rested enough I would.
I hate talking to her I hate being around her. If I say I love her she say nothing back If I hug her she pulls away saying she tired from work. SomeTime s I want to knocked the hell out of her but I do not want to protray a negative image around the kids. She always want to go on vacation and trips and rather spend all the towards it instead of paying bills. She b*itches about her job and gets mad because I don't make enough to take care of the family. If she would have allowed me to take the higher paying job then we would be OK instead of near foreclosure and power company about to turn off lights every month. I really think that after tax season and I save enough money I'm divorcing her *** quick and getting joint custody of my son. Let her ***** to someone because I 'm tired of hearing and dealing with her complaining ***.

I try my best. I work pretty hard in the house, but I am often spoken down to. I feel lonely and at times fearful.

S

Soooo glad I found this forum! Was so pissed off at my bydch of a wife that I just typed "I hate my wife" into the browser and it took me here. My wife and I have a son, whom I love more than air.. He's the ONLY reason I don't just tell her to fugh OFF. The second he turns 18 I'm leaving her unfun, lazy, surly, complaining azz. My wife thinks the world owes her everything. She works part time. Yet I do ALL of the house work and yard work. I cook ALL of the meals. All while woking at least 48 hours a week. The ONLY job she does is laundry. And she only does that because it's not actual work. It's a minimal contribution. My wife is absolutely NO FUN. She complains about EVERYTHING. We've been to TWO marriage counselors and as soon as the counselor says she's doing anything wrong or takes my side on any issue she doesn't want to see him any more. She's always pouting or sulking. Always has a problem. She's constantly upset. I personally know at least five of my female friends who would LOVE to have me as their husband. I have 15 years of this misery to deal with. Then I can dump her *** and have a happy life without her. I'm stashing money and preparing for that day. As soon as my son turns 18 it's gonna be SEE YA LATER!!! Goodbye misery.

I've spend 11 years trying to stay married to this dumb *****. We got no kids thankfully, since she would be a piece of **** mother. Give this ***** $1000, she will spend $1100 and on some stupid ****. She has no personality. She has no clue what it going on in the real world. She is lazy. She is addicted to pills. She complains and *******. She isn't as good looking as she was, but she is still a looker. However, the sex is lame. She never helps around the house. She don't try to be a part of my family. She yells and takes advantage of her own family. She is ruining her younger brother's life by sharing her drugs with him. He looks up to her.



I'm at the point where i'd rather live alone unhappy than live with her forever being unhappy.



And this ***** won't be happy with anyone else. It's not me. She has issues.

I am at a point where I would rather sleep on the cold floow in the lounge than sleep in the same bed with my "wife". She has become worse than the nastiest piece if *** I have ever seen. In fact I look at her now and simply have nothin inside for her. The fact of the matter is, she still feels that I love her and will often say "I love You", to that I do not respond. I cannot recall the l;ast time I uttered those words. She is a truly horridd individual who's only feelings are truly for herself and how she lives. She feels nothing for my being at all in fact, her words of I love you seem to be habitual rather than tru.

We have a 1 year old daughter and that is the only reason I stay, when she is old enough and my finances are stable, I will leave her, this is a fact and not a dream. I will make this happen. I am 40 now and do not want to live my life with someone who is truly a ***** in every aspect of the word. I would ratrher live alone than with her.



Just to put you in the picture, she said "if I ever left her she would cut off my dogs tail so that noone could experience happiness ever again". well I am sure my dog can do without his tail and he would be far happier without her. He would wag his *** as would I.

This page is so funny and sad all at the same time!!!! Very interesting....Okay so please help all you "I hate my bitchy wife!" contributors.

I am a 27yr old woman married to a good man for 8 yrs but our marriage is falling apart. We both work full time but when I get off work my work continues. I know as a woman, I shouldn't think of tending to meals, laundry, cleaning, homework, managing our bills, ect as work but I do. Why is it that he gets off work and is off???? I try so hard not to be a nagging wife. I don't sweat the small stuff. I overlook mistakes as human error. But don't let me leave my towel on the floor in the morning because he has a fit!

Even though, I am the only one that ever cleans that room too.

I am working hard to advance in my career and always looking for ways to improve our family whether it is the kids' grades, our income, their extracurricular activities, things to do with my husband that he will enjoy. I have taken leaps of faith in the sex department. We have explored sex clubs, **********, sex play and other things. I try to be open-minded and fun but it is never enough. He says that I don't want to do anything sexually. Is it me? Am I supposed to be excited about sex when the session is all about your pleasure? I ask for candles, fun lights, maybe a shower scene sometimes but that is too much to ask for I guess???? So, yes, I am not very excited about sex anymore. I know the session will end with his satisfaction and my demented self trying to find my satisfaction in knowing he is happy.....

WOW. I too give my kids tons of attention but I have always believed that if they lack some attention because I am spending it with Dad, it is not such a bad thing. It is good for them to see that.

I can't get over feeling like he is always doing something behind my back. I am sneaky and snoop. I try to catch things before they go too far. He loves to socialize and I feel like crap when he does. I think because I am always feeling like he wishes I was more, or different. I never feel like what he wants. Obviously, I am a bit of a people pleaser! lol

I am always in a bad mood around him. I tell him to leave. I yell at everything around me. I know I was very young when we got together and I have had my own set of "growing pains" but I have always loved him and try to be everything he needs or would want.

I support him and encourage him. He sex plays with girls on line, sends naked pics of women online, makes vulgar comments among his social peers like "Have some of this before work" with a pic of an *** and *****. I wouldn't care but they all know he is married and I think it makes me look stupid especially when some of these peers are women.

Before you say it, I am not suffering of low self esteem or whatever....People like me and think a lot about me. Some ask how he got me....ect but I am someone who came from a broken home, who knows how important a father is to their kids, and wants to be able to raise my kids in a 2 parent household, and love my husband. I want to be my hubby's wife, best friend, girlfriend..ect I want him to be happy and love me the way I deserve to be loved.

So let’s have it.... I'm I crazy for being such a ***** to him???

If it helps any of you, I have a over dramatic wife. The littlest things make her freak out which makes me lose my temper and usually drives up my alcohol intake. I understand that I cannot change her over the last 9 years but something has to give. I wish you gentlemen luck. I sure need it. Probably won't come back to this site but good luck. I don't think drugs or alcohol are solving the problem but I feel like their are chooses. At least I have a great daughter and one on the way.

She uses her glosssed over cute and sexy voice! To the other guys, or gals on the other end of the microphone. On a mmorpg , not to me whos been slaving my @## off to pay for the abilities to do this. This house should be condemed for cleanliness but the B$#@@! is a level 75. How can I argue with that! Thwe last time sex was even a talk was ... really cant remember. And it was only a talk. I come home , mow the friggin lawn, wash the dishes, Which is really weird cause I use the same utensils every night, but she dont. lol. This mmo has taken over her life , but she thinks its her ..PRIVELAGE. She barely works, making annually what she spends in 3 weeks.THATS When I can get her to work, any job she does she has to ***** ABOUT IT. I could be a gladiator fighting for the survival of the human race, but she had to work beside so-and so , and that trumps that.I wonder if they have an mmo AAA yet, or if even this is my problem, juudging from all other posts, gender might be the problem. Good luck gents

I'm in the same situation but I'm a woman... I work all day - He doesn't want to work. I take the kids everywhere. I pay all the bills. He nags me from the time I walk in the door. Or on a lucky day he'll act like he's asleep until I go to bed then he'll get up. I'm financially exhausted - I leave for work at 6am and don't get back from taking the kids to practices until about 9:30pm - i usually have to buy food out because I have no time and my kids and I scramble just to have clean clothes- when I ask him why he can't at least cook or wash some clothes he replies that he isn't our n****r! Wow! Where is that coming from? As for sex - he told me years ago that I was "unf***able" - so I don't even bother to ask. I just don't know what to do - I think my children are entitled to their childhood and being happy - so my only plan is to continue with the same routine until they are grown - then I guess if he hasn't found someone else by then (since he gets to lay around and socialize all day) - I guess I'll have to see what happens then

i am a 43 year old man. i make six figures. i am a partner at a firm that i founded. we have a huge brick mini mansion on a lake in a very affluent neighborhood. i do work around the house. home improvements, landscaping. i am an amateur chef and cook dinner 4-5x a week. no kraft mac & cheese here, real meals like you'd get in a restaurant. we have very nice cars, take expensive trips. i buy her extravagant jewelry and gifts in an effort to make her happy.



My wife is 46. we met 16 years ago. she has a son from her first marraige. her ex was a cheating lying piece of garbage. total lowlife. because of this she is completely jealous and as she's aged, she has become less self-confident, thus thinks im on the prowl looking for someone else, even though i've done nothing of the sort. she deleted 40+ friends from my facebook account behind my back because they were women she didn't know. they were business acquaintances, distant cousins or people i just knew from grade school, high school and college. not even any ex girlfriends. seriously. every text message or phone call i get is "who was that? your girlfriend?" in spite of all of my reassurances that i am not cheating, every thing is a dig. I have to travel for business, so of course she things i'm screwing everything that walks the minute i get to the airport. every trip is an exquisite torture of her thinking i'm up to no good and me having to defend myself against stuff i havent done. its so frustrating!



She is CONSTANTLY picking at me. everything i do is wrong or stupid or not how i should have done it. hell, a busted clock is right twice a day. not me. always wrong. that's me. apparently after 43 years on earth, building a successful business, and having a great deal of book smarts and life experience, awards and accolades in my field, making my clients milions of dollars, at the crest of being the most successful i've ever been in my life, i'm a moron.



her son is in his twenties, living with an ugly fat chick (whom he intends to marry) and has no job. BUM.



between the insecurity, the jealousy, and the constant picking and arguing, i'm really trying hard to find a reason not to walk away, besides not wanting to lose half of my stuff.

Wives are terrible. Mine is too ! (I am married for 12 years and have two kids as well). Not all the time, but enough to give me headaches. What is worse for me is that she tends to be provocative a lot. She will basically provoke me and push me to the edge, nagging about very little things to the point that I feel I should now hit her, but I never do. I know this would be wrong thing to do. I am a very educated person and I know what I do not have to do as well!



- It would have been so much better if she had realised that she needs to change a bit. But if I mention this to her, that is she has to change: my God, she will hit the roof and never ever accept it. You have no idea how much I am ALWAYS changing myself, and asking myself what can I do to make things better and implementing little changes (by the way, that's how I came to this site today!), this makes it feel very unfair, because on her side she would never even think of changing or making things better. I must say she was NOT like this always, at the beginning of the marital relationship, it was okay but it has gone worse with time (in her case, becoming more mature with age does not make her better).



- Another thing I find nightmarish is that she knows very well what my strength is, and she knows very well I can deliver (whatever it is including house works etc), but she will hit me when I am at my weak point: example when I am tired after work. How unfair this makes life feel...



- They simply do not realise that a man needs a quiet space, needs peace of mind first so that he can recharge himself after a hard day's work. I find it amazing that a woman does not understand something so simple. I am not saying all wives are like this, but many are and mine is just like this. If only they had understood JUST this, it would have made life so much simpler.



- Another thing is: in the couple I am a lot calmer than my wife. Now you might think I am trying to praise myself but I am not. I swear I know who I am. Even all my colleagues and my bosses at work know for a fact that I am a very calm AND peaceful person. Now add to this, I have two kids. So when my wife starts nagging, I tend to be the one who will appease things. This is because I am naturally the calmer one, and I do not want her to start shouting and screaming and scaring the kids. So what I tend to do is to adopt the win/lose position (She wins, I lose). I know it's not right, but I have to do it at least when the kids are awake and not in bed yet.



- Perhaps in some sense I am afraid of her, I am embarrassed to say this, but it might be true. She is very much like her father with very very bad character. She would not hesitate A SECOND (read this twice please!) to suddenly disrupt the whole nice atmosphere/environment of the house. She just does not care if she hurts you as long as she says what she wants! This I find particularly hard.



Anyway, life is really not easy with a wife, I must admit ! People reading this might think if my story is true or not, but I swear I have described all this to the best of my ability, I do not gain anything by not telling the truth here. All I am saying is what I feel. There is a lot more, but there would not be enough space to write all here, it could be the size of a book if I were to say everything !!

My marriage is a miserable combination of all of the above. It's because of the power struggle that marriage becomes. The whole penis envy thing was explained very clerly to me, and on many levels, women are out there trying to demonstrate that they don't need men. How convenient it is to do so, once they have married one and attached themselves like leeches to your finances. At the core of the matter, women want security. Then after they have that, they do the praying mantis thing and want to devour their mate. You don't see too many women refusing alimony or contesting 50% of marital assets are theirs (even when they may have contributed NOTHING during the course of the marriage). That's why I got a prenuptual. For all of you men out there that are too scared of hurting your wife-to-be's feelings....let me say this: It was the single most INTELLIGENT thing I ever did. My wife is a deceitful ***** and just the other day when she told me 'how it's gonna be'...I reminded her that I don't need her ****, and that if she wants she can go **** up a rope...take off, hit the road, etc. I will be UNAFFECTED and I can take ALL my money, ALL my posessions, etc....with me, and she can just kiss my *** and make it alone. I made certain in the prenup that she waive the right to alimony.



Sure I got a river of tears and the old "Don't you trust me" bullshit, but you know what? They have ulterior motives from the very beginning. After all, what does a guy want in life? A job. Peaceful time at home. A beer after work. That's IT. What does a woman need? Every thing that she sees on TV and that her friends are wearing. They are the ones with the extreme need to keep up with the Jones', if you will. Well, gentlemen, for about 300 bucks and some fake tears, you can avoid a nasty divorce settlement and keep the shirt on your back.



Here's a good one too! When we bought a home, I created a corporation and registered the land and home in the name of the corporation. So if we get a divorce, I have access to the house and land ANY OLD TIME I WANT. She can't even contest it in court.



Believe me, I can see how much it ****** her off that I had the foresight to think of these things.



Gentlemen, let's keep the ******* in their place. We men are much more vlunerable due to our committment to work and provide. A woman gets a divorce, and she's back on the barstool in about 2 hours. If she can find someone with money, a marriage is in the works. Guys work much harder than that for basic human respect. And women know this.

All ***** deserved to be killed and let the devil teach them a lessons that they would not forget. We men work hard and never get appreciated for . Woman is the cause of evil , remember adam and eve it was eve who become evil that why god punished us. Aggree with me and the law is always not fair to us. Stay away fro polish ***** they only want money , money.

Good luck, and hope you all get things worked out with your wives, especially if there are kids involved

I do recommend Taken in Hand or Domestic Discipline, is not abusing your wife, or beating her, is an agreement between the both of you deciding who is the head of the household



I have a temper, and can act up, but lately, my husband would not allowed, I get disrespectful, I get a smack or two, and I better quit or get a third one, and I better apologize, or earn another one, and believe it or nor things are better at home, but I agree with him, about taking my medicine if I misbehave, once I apologize, he does hug me, and all is forgotten



Do talk to your wives, and tell them how you feel when they are disrespectful, try to make them see, how would they feel if it was the other way around, if you have to be forced to **** on your wife, is best you both split, as a relationship with no respect and trust, is nothing left

I have been faithful to my wife for almost 25 years, when I met her she was drop dead gorgeous and I thinkg she still is for her age of 47. She was always controlling but not bitchy. But as the years passes she became more and more controlling and bitchy. When I mean controlling she has a say in every matter. For example, I always wanted a dog but we had to get what she wants a cat I wanted to have another kid but she wanted to stop at one, on and on. etc.... It never stops. It is her way or the highway. She argues about every petty bull s###! She is never wrong about anything. We use to have vicious arguments about stupid petty stuff and then still make up and have sex at least once a week. It was a bad situation but bearable. This year it got worse, because this June I lost my job. My income went from almost six figures to $405/wk.. unemployment. We stopped paying our mortgage and bank started foreclosure proceedings. My wife became more and more unbearable. The sex stopped, and constant nagging about when are you going to get a job bull#### started. I don't want to get a crappy job and still make the same amount of money as unemployment. I try to explain to her but she does not understand. I am about to lose it. Good jobs at my age which is early 50's are hard to come by. I want to f###### leave her but financially I can't do it. I still pray everyday but since my dad's death, and after losing my job, an about to lose my home I started to question the existence of God (Sorry for all the faithful people) . I am hoping that it gets better for all of us here on this blog. I am also tempted to cheat on her with a younger woman who has been trying to get my attention for sometime.

God to know I am not alone!



I don't know if my wife is as bad as some of the women I am reading about in previous posts, but I can tell you that I am already at a place where I can no longer see a possible happy ending in this marriage. My wife loves to nag, point out my errors (and gloat in a passive aggressive fashion) and is generally negative about anything I say or do. She will blow almost any disagreement into a showdown with the fate of our family in the balance unless I agree with her. I'm so sick of it, every argument becomes a question of whether or not our relationship should continue. This happened most recently over a milk bottle I was feeding my son with, she insisted I was doing something wrong (my son was half asleep so it appeared to her he was not drinking). I was aware of this so I wasn't worried about it). I'm not new to dealing with infants and I damn sure know how to use a bottle. She freaks out over it, I get pissed for the 115th time and then she escalates it to a question of our relationship continuing. The usual crap. This happens with EVERYTHING. Nevermind that I spend 6-10 hours a day looking after my son so she can have time for herself on my days off. Or that I wash the dishes, cook, do laundry, vacuum etc every day while she is on maternity leave of a YEAR... there's no pleasing them.



She has a ton of flaws, spends money like it's water, never on time for anything and general laziness are just a few. She complains about everything she has to do as if she is some princess being taught a lesson. I almost never mention her mistakes or shortcomings because I have never been that kind of person. They're called mistakes because they're not intentional. And as for flaws we all have them, so unless they are grating I keep it to myself and try to accept things as they are.



Whenever their is a question about something that needs to be done she will ask my opinion and then proceed to do the opposite of what I said or she will choose to not trust my judgment on a matter that I have a lot of experience with, and listen to what "someone else" told her. She will sometimes look for some outside persons opinion to verify what I said as if I can't be trusted. All the while she will tell me how SMART she thinks I am. Right.



And then she wonders why we don't have sex? If your woman makes you feel like your an idiot then why would you want to open up to her like that? I sometimes wonder if women think men don't have feelings.



I am at the point where I simply avoid her as much as possible so as not to feel on edge for hours on end. It's the only thing I can think of doing since something as simple as using a baby bottle, turning up/down the heat or using the incorrect spoon for the rice can make her irritable and when she is that way she looks for ways to **** me off. This has lead to me distancing myself big-time.



I can't remember the last time I felt like myself while she was around. It's been years! It has been 4 years now in total but we have been married for one year. I have a 3 week old son who is the only good thing in my life right now. I just wonder how long I can keep this up. I wonder why the hell I married her in the first place. The longer it goes on the more dead I feel emotionally. I'm worried that if I pretend my way through this for my son he will learn to look at marriage/relationships in a negative way. You can't hide this kind of thing from a kid, they will figure it out and most likely repeat it.



Relationships are not complicated, women are! They are impossible to please because they don't even know what the hell they want in most cases. I'm convinced that the nicer you are, as a guy, the worse it will be for you in relationships. If you a re a nice-guy, don't get married.

Amen brother. My wife is a burden on my soul

Wow -- painful stuff here. I know we men have our issues, but the last 50 years have created a lot of male confusion. Don't get me wrong -- I'm not against equality, but the days are past when the man did the work and the wife was home preparing dinner with a kind smile on her face. My wife doesn't even work and acts like watching the kids is the hardest job in the world. It is hard, but c'mon -- she knows she doesn't want to be kissing *** all day long in some office. My wife is a real ***** -- full of pain, insecurity, and stress -- and she takes it out on everyone, thinking that somehow it will make her feel better, but it never does. So she feels more pain and guilt and is too prideful to humble herself -- instead, she yells, pitches a fit, all for the "rise" she gets out of me and the kids. If you think about it, it's the only emotion she can truly feel any control over, even if it is a negative one. Guys -- if you aren't going to leave your wife (and I will not -- we have 3 kids together), then the only thing that works is Pavlovian-style training. In 12 years of marriage I have not found anything else that works. It's almost like training a dog. You need to be firm and in control of your emotions, showing no sign of weakness, no reaction to her ugly words, yelling, or name-calling, and being completely consistent. I learned this from a psychiatrist who did his dissertation on it. When your wife starts "acting bitchy" you look her in the eyes, ask her if she wants a glass of water or something (as a kind distraction) and then say (with kindness but forcefulness) "Baby, your action now is not conducive to our home/kids. I'm sorry you are in pain, but I am not the cause. If you continue this tirade, I will take the kids on a drive for a couple of hours, but we will not share our time with you like this." Usually, she will want this (to get you and the kids out of her hair) but MARK MY WORDS, in a about 2 hours she will call looking for you. Don't answer. You control when you come back home. Each time she reacts like this, take the kids for longer (or leave them with her and just get out). The breaking point was when I took my kids on Christmas Eve last year, with all of their presents, and had Christmas in a hotel room the next morning. My wife cried and cried, but I had warned her and was consistent. I told her we were not going to spend Christmas Eve with her like this. She felt I had ruined Christmas, but I told her firmly and quietly that it was her who ruined the Christmas. Then I sweetly asked her if "Baby, can I get you some water or something?" Those like service words make her realize you are completely in control of your emotions, and she is being the freak. My wife still has her outbreaks, and when she is humble we talk about them. But if she is bitchy and crosses the line, then the "dog training" has to come back into play. Set out the consequences, and still to them. YOU are the man of the house -- show her that. You are not going to take her crap, but you are there for her if she wants to be vulnerable and talk about her pain.



My 2 cents -- I'll tell you it's the only thing that works if you want to keep a "bitchy" marriage.



Dan

i call my wife the buldozer with a broken rearview mirror. she flattens everything in her path and doesn't see it. she used to be a fun-sponge now she is the fun sham-wow now capable of soaking up 4 times the fun. i have noticed many people not just women have lost touch with reality. someone once gave me some great advice to help me stay grounded. if you want to know where you stand in life, look down at your 2 feet. it is what it is. there is nothing wrong with dreaming, as long as the dream doesn't creep in on the reality of things. i find that many people perfer the dream version of their life to what's really going on. it's simple my wife loves me no doubt, but is her version of love the one best suited for me? that is a decision best answered by the heart not the head.



is my wife my best friend? yes but by default, she has always been there for me that being said she has always been there for me. like hitler was there for the germans.



living with anyone is a challenge doesn't matter who they are. living with my wife is almost impossible i really don't think she has the ability to predict the destruction she is capable of before it happens. her mother does the same thing and she has not changed. most people see it this way if "my partner is still with me, i can't be all that bad." do not make the mistake of leaving and coming back . now you have given your partner the impression that you need them and you don't have anywhere else to go. if they were horrible before. now you can bet nothing has changed with them apart from feeling more free to treat you poorly. "hey they know what i'm like, and they are coming back for more. i didn't hold a gun to their head." after 16 years with my wife i do not doubt if she loves or cares about me. in theory she is a good wife in reality she really sucks at helping a man feel good about himself. she is more of an obstacle than a catalyst for self improvement.

i call my wife the buldozer with a broken rearview mirror. she flattens everything in her path and doesn't see it. she used to be a fun-sponge now she is the fun sham-wow now capable of soaking up 4 times the fun. i have noticed many people not just women have lost touch with reality. someone once gave me some great advice to help me stay grounded. if you want to know where you stand in life, look down at your 2 feet. it is what it is. there is nothing wrong with dreaming, as long as the dream doesn't creep in on the reality of things. i find that many people perfer the dream version of their life to what's really going on. it's simple my wife loves me no doubt, but is her version of love the one best suited for me? that is a decision best answered by the heart not the head.



is my wife my best friend? yes but by default, she has always been there for me that being said she has always been there for me. like hitler was there for the germans.



living with anyone is a challenge doesn't matter who they are. living with my wife is almost impossible i really don't think she has the ability to predict the destruction she is capable of before it happens. her mother does the same thing and she has not changed. most people see it this way if "my partner is still with me, i can't be all that bad." do not make the mistake of leaving and coming back . now you have given your partner the impression that you need them and you don't have anywhere else to go. if they were horrible before. now you can bet nothing has changed with them apart from feeling more free to treat you poorly. "hey they know what i'm like, and they are coming back for more. i didn't hold a gun to their head." after 16 years with my wife i do not doubt if she loves or cares about me. in theory she is a good wife in reality she really sucks at helping a man feel good about himself. she is more of an obstacle than a catalyst for self improvement.