All Her Way!

I am 41 years old, on my second wife and have 2 young kids. I love my kids, but hate my wife. She never has anything good to say to me or about me. She lets the kids run all over her then gets pissed at me when I yell at them for disobeying or not listening to her. Then she says my yelling is distroying the kids and says I need meds. She ******* about her job, her new 3/4 million dollar home, her car ect.... I am so fed up. What the hell was I thinking when I got married for a 2nd time. Men, don't do it. Stay single, enjoy your job, your time off and your friends. Kids are not what they arecracked up to be. Yes I love mine, but man my life would be so much better with then and not thier mother. But, I cannot afford to leave her. She will become a vindictive ***** and try to distroy me. The perfect solution would be to buy the house next door and be neighbors with kids.

I know I should leave but I don't want to lose my kids and everything I own.

MarriageHell MarriageHell
41-45, M
6 Responses Apr 16, 2007

ALW3AYS SAID..............>A women KNOWS when she is not loved, and often in a passive/agressive way might act out on that. <br />
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HELL YA WE DO!!!!! WITH MY X I KNEW HE DIDNT LOVE ME ...<br />
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SO LIKE U SAID........ I ACTED OUT! BITCHED ABOUT EVERYTHTING..... BUT IF U PEELED BACK THE la<x>yerS........ WHAT I WAS REALLY ANGERY ABOUT WAS HIS LACK OF LOVE HE FELT TOWARDS ME ......

Friggen getting married a second time? I hope to God I never get that urge. Friggin it honestly is cheaper to blow money at ***** clubs and craigslist ****** than getting married. Friggin these fiance women hook guys up with non<x>stop sex, then once married, they stop forever. You still need to dish out endless money for their clothes and underwear, and then you never get sex. At least with a ********, you can blow cash on her and still get hooked up. Marriage sucks and is a friggin punishment. It is only good for probably the first 3 months max!

OK, Ive been reading all of these stories and I am a woman, but seriously guys STOP the pity party. YOU chose to get married, YOU chose to have kids and now you are CHOSING to stay in CRAPPY marriages. If it is so unbareable than get OUT. Trust me, it really is not a complete picnic on the other side either, no one is perfect, and sadly it seems that the guys on this story thread made really lousy choices for spouses, but here is just one thing (ooops maybe 2, lol) to consider. A women KNOWS when she is not loved, and often in a passive/agressive way might act out on that. 2. ALL of you have ALLOWED your wives to treat you like crap, because if you didn't they wouldn't be doing it. Would you ALLOW a co-worker to treat you the way she does? Or even a boss? If the answer is no, than why allow HER to get away with it. Don't discuss this stuff in the heat of the moment, but in a calm time address her, like you would a friend, and TELL her you will nolonger ACCEPT her poor behavior. THAN bloody well stick to your guns. IF she changes GREAT, if not, cut your losses and move on, find someone who will APPRECIATE all the things you do, honestly guys, we do exist!! OK pops off the pedistle. Sorry and GOOD LUCK!!

i hear you man about the kids part. my wife is a piece of work as well. i bet you sometimes wish that she would just disappear. i know i do.

Sorry to hear this, my wife is not vindictive but she is one dumb *****. She says all the wrong thing alll the time! Never said anything nice (sincerely!). I really feel lonely in this marriage.

dude. I'm sorry to hear that. you know, I can really say that women are ********. Well, the modern women is an *******. They have all these rights and are empowered by the feminist movement but do not hav e the slightest idea of satisfying a man. I'm about to get married and having second thoughts.