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I Hate My Wife

Totally Unmotivated & Self-centered

By: keepsmiling
Written on June 13th, 2008
Age: 31-35
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7 responses
  • jonah83

    I really understand your situation. Of course, a divorce is a solution that will end all this, BUT it can make will life worse in other ways. As you said, she's self-centered, so I do not expect she'll let go the divorce that easy, at least she'll try to get every penny she can get.

    I would say, since if you're thinking of divorce already, it might be a good step to confront her, be FIRM, CLEAR, SPECIFIC.

    Choose a good time, get her a present first, invite her to dinner outside, and then try to point out the things that you don't like about "your life" (about her), tell her that if things keep on this way, you would not be able to "fit in her world", and that you'll develop depression.

    Hope this helps,

    I'll come back to see if you have any updates. Let us know, share what you feel.

    Oct 20, 2010
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  • carolin2000us

    I agree with sicko, get a divorce, next time find a woman that has a good job, has goals, selfmotivated, ...etc

    Aug 2, 2008
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  • JonnySmart

    she is sick. RUn for ur life.

    Jul 29, 2008
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  • sheila13

    what can I say but leave....if your not happy then just go....she can't make you feel bad unless you allow her to so make the move now before kids come into the picture!

    Jul 20, 2008
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  • sickofthedrama

    Some women are just looking to sit on their *** and let someone else take care of them, and marriage is the easiest, quickest, cheapest legal way to accomplish that. I think you got one of those, dude. Get out!

    Jul 6, 2008
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  • missing

    Lazy. What the hell??? What I don't get is did she get the ring and all of a sudden turn into a fat lazy couch potato??? Have you tried marriage counseling?

    Jun 22, 2008
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  • autimom

    Jesus, get a divorce, already! And do not have any kids!

    Jun 14, 2008
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