I Love My Wife With Everything I Have.

I honestly and truely love my wife with all of my being. She is my reason for waking up in the morning and busting my ***. We have been married for a little over a year.


I will admit I have done my share of lying about my past and looked at some ****. I have never cheated on her or ever will.


When we met she presented herself as a different person. I was in the Army at the time and was used to doing things with my buddies like going to ***** clubs. She even went with us one time and told me she liked it.


Fast forward to the marriage. She doesn't like **** or ***** clubs. Thats fine with me because I only went with my buddies so no big deal.


She has told me she hasn't trusted me our whole marriage, but I question her about a male friend that I didn't know taking her home from work and she blows up in my face. I actually didn't think she would cheat but was mad about having to entertain a guest instead of working on the car like I needed to.


So now I'm out of the Army. She doesn't think we spend enough time together. We have about 3 hours in the morning and 3 hours at night. I tell her it's more than a lot of people get. We rarely get to spend a whole day together cause of work schedules. Sunday is my only garuanteed day off and she works late sunday.


We had a great weekend with lots of fun because I took friday off and only had to work 6 hours on saturday, but come 30 mins before her schedule starts she starts throwing a fit about having to work on Sunday. So after I calm her down, I have to race down the highway to get her to work on time and my hood unlatches itself and flies into my windshield. I was definately mad at that point.


It seems to me she has trouble getting the difference between Disney love and actual love, that is busted our ***** to scrap enough to live on and maybe retire by 70.


I thank god we don't have kids.

joeyjoejoe joeyjoejoe
3 Responses Jun 15, 2008

Friggin cut your **** off because you don't want to have kids! Seriously, the kids lock you into the marriage forever. Plus she probably will get fat and gross after a few kids. If I didn't have kids, I would be friggin moving to Japan away from this woman forever!

hmm ... from what I've read consider yourself lucky your wife loves and misses you. I'm sorry I missed what the real problem was in your story.

Are you happy ?<br />
If not, why spend the rest of your married life being miserable ?<br />
Don't you deserve something better than your current situation ?<br />
Make some changes.