My wife is a mean, bitter person. i have one child with her, a beautiful baby girl. She has another daughter from a previous relationship that I love and treat as my own. I consider myself to be a mild person.
I have a very good job - not rich! - but very well compensated for what I do. My wife also works, but claims she hates her job.
We knew each other almost a year when we got married. We have been married for less than a year at the time of this article.
Anyway, now to the point. Everyday - if not, at least every other day - my wife is happy as can be in the morning. Loves me, the kids, life is great. By early afternoon she wants a divorce. By bed time, she is okay again. It is absolutely killing me. i cant stand the roller coaster. The thing is , if she was my girlfriend and not my wife, and there wre no kids involved, I'd be gone. Boom! Outta there.
Anyway, when she gets mad, she is downright mean. name calling, viscious personal attacks, and more. I dread leaving work because I am not comfortable in my own house. I love the kids - whole-heartidly - but I am anxious to get out of the situation.
As an example, today she told me she is "done. That's it. Done. I want a Divorce." Why? Because i bought a $14 hat on Ebay. Now I understand discussion larger purchases, but all this over $14? I told her I have the cash on me - i'll throw it in the acocunt - but that is not good enough. Just to fill you in, we are not hard up for money either. $14 is not going to break the bank. It will barely dent it. So what is the issue? And to boot, we talked about this already, and determined purchases under $100 don't require discussion. So what the hell? I didn't get upset when she bought herself clothes, etc.
This is a daily occurance - and everyday it is something else. She demands she have access to my email and cell phone records as well. Just for the record - i have never given her any reason to doubt me, or not trust me. I have never flirted with, held hands with, talked to, etc. another female since I have been dating my wife. Yet she treats me like a 5 year old male prostitute. Yet there is always something i am doing wrong...
She is also prescribed medication which she refuses to take, because she wants to "get better on her own." ?? Seriously? I don't know how much longer I can take it.
And advice would be appreciated.