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I have been married for one year, and soon after that I realized I have made a big mistake. My wife is just like a sad machine. Whenever I see her she has that F***ing sad face for no reasons. She is now 9 months pregnant, otheriwse I would have dumped her long time back. I dont want my baby girl to left alone with this *****.....

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Posted on June 10th, 2007 at 1:20PM

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Posted by trey420 on Nov 21st, 2007 at 9:12AM

I feel your pain. i'm in the same situation, kind of. After 3 months, my g/f got pregnant and basically said that if i wanted to be a part of this kids life, we'll need to get married. It turns out she hates my family, is a control freak around the house and thinks all her paranoid anxieties are completely justified...

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Posted by Mahna on Dec 1st, 2007 at 3:31PM

So is she "really" sad... or does she just "look" sad? Maybe you just don't like the way she looks!.... maybe she's tired, or just has nothing to smile about. I look sad, but I'm not, and people are always asking me what's wrong. Plastic surgery would help, but that scares me. If you "hate" that about your wife, then you are not in love, and there are going to be so so many things in the future that you will "hate" about her. Are you happy about the baby? Do you want the married life, as boring as it gets sometimes, or would you rather be on the prowl? Do you want her? Sometimes we just jump in without knowing what we are getting into and sometimes we jump out... just as quick. It's tough that there is a child involved, but it wouldn't be the first time. You only live one time... and it's a short life, so if you truly feel that way, and are not just venting... if you think it won't get better after she has the baby, which it probably will only get worse... then get OUT! She might be sad because she can tell you are not happy. Let her go NOW, whether she wants to let go of you are not, both of you deserve to find someone who LIKES you, not just lusted after you for a brief period. I would rather be a child of a happy broken home, than in a miserable unbroken one. If you think you love her, and want to give it a chance... stop looking at her everytime she enters the room, and start doing something.

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Posted by 2kind on Dec 2nd, 2007 at 5:01PM

I often wonder why my dad left my mom,considering he felt she was off base.Now I'm in the same situation i feel compelled to stay because she will neglect our 3 kids.Some women feel the need to make their kids suffer just to get back at their ex, i believe this is very common among women. So i know its hard as hell to do, you have to hold on if she is wacko and slick,no judge will give dad custody if all things are equal.

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Posted by guvluv410 on Dec 12th, 2007 at 11:49PM

i feel the same way...except the baby issue. i have been married for 6 months and my wife never seems to be happy. she is an emotionless empty shell and i have been beating myself up because i think its my fault. i want to leave her but want to keep giving it a chance at the same time, this is a tough situation for me.

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