Like a Fk'n Drill to My Head

I'm not married to her, but we have a kid together. I'm white, she's American Chinese, and throughout both families we're considered married.We've been together almost 2 years now.

She wants to get married and I cannot justify it with her attitude. We own a business together, which i thought (lmao, thought) was going to be cool/ nice. Everything is my fault, whenever something goes wrong with the baby, or with work, even if its not my fault, she relates it to something I did in the past to **** her off and it becomes my fault.

Her sister hated living with their parents, so my 'wife' offered that she come live with us, and how great it would be having her there to baby sit, because her 19 year old sister just went to school and then nothing else. Little did she mention her sister is a spoiled fk'n b*tch that believes she fk'n belongs here. She has the balls to argue with me over my fk'n tv when a hockey game is on so she can watch fk'n american idol or dance crew bullsh*t.

Then when she doesn't get her way, she goes around banging sh*t and talking loud AND MY FK'N WIFE WILL DEFEND HER if i yell at her.

So then we go back to my 'wife'. when I come home like after today after running around and working all day, and I want to come home and sit down eat pizza that I picked up fro everyone and watch the hockey game, not to mention she took the day off and sat on her *** 'taking care of the kid' who is 8 months old and sleeps most of the day. She says to me we can't even have dinner together without you watching tv, and have a conversation (no doubt about something new she wants to nag at me about.) and all the while she's looking up new windows for our fkn house instead of engaging in any conversaton at all.

Last week her sh*t head little sister crashed my 'wifes' car, which she was upset about but wasn't pissed at her sister for. Who was she pissed at???????? ME!!!!! I asked her about the car and what she was gonna do about her sister and the next thing I know is she's b*tching at me about how i didn't clean the babies bottles before i went to bed the other night. Then she proceeded to make dinner for her and her sister and told me to make my own.

lmao, i have a child with this woman (which is my fault I 'knocked' her up... which i don't remember her jumpin off me at the time i was, you know) I love my son, even when he cries just as i manage to get my 'wife' in the mood, the 4am diaper changings, and head splitting crying that occasionally occurs. So i do not want to leave. I just need some laws to be changed so i can punch my'wife' in the head, along with her b*tch sister at any random moment i choose to.

ShootMe ShootMe
26-30
4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

Be very thankful that you're not married to her. Above all: DO NOT MARRY HER. Has she begun nagging you to tie the knot yet? Don't do it - she'll get half of everything you own now, and everything you will earn in the future. You will be financially destroyed by unreasonable "child support" (alimony in disguise). Sounds like this situation is toxic. My advice (fwiw) is get yourself separated, and support your son - a man has to take responsibilities. But go and get your freedom and sanity back. Is it your house? Legally speaking, I mean? If so, SELL it, and buy another, without this bee-yotch. Or if your cajones are still attached, throw them both out, and find an inexpensive baby sitter who DOESN'T LIVE IN YOUR HOUSE.

Man you ARE NOT MARRIED. Leave the b!tch. Things will not get better. First though record as much info as you can about how crazy she is so that you get custody of your son. Do not live like this anymore it is really bad for you. My wife did crap like this to me and I got an ulcer from it. Good luck.

Honest to God I second the hitting rule! I have never hit but I fantasize about it hourly! I believe they used to call it "the rule of thumb" in that you could legally hit your wife with anything as long it was no thicker than your thumb. Rebar is pretty skinny isn't it?

Honest to God I second the hitting rule! I have never hit but I fantasize about it hourly! I believe they used to call it "the rule of thumb" in that you could legally hit your wife with anything as long it was no thicker than your thumb. Rebar is pretty skinny isn't it?