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The Most Ungrateful Woman On Earth

where does one start friends.i feel like im stuck in a world with her, that i want so desperately out of.I have 2 sons(15,10) and that is the only reason i stay with unbelievably b%$ch of a woman.

I married her 13 years ago.her first husband died in a car crash and they had one son,(who i like to call my own,15), for the simple reason that he was 1 years old when i married this woman.

for 13 yeras i have struggled and toiled to make her happy.i have loved her son with immense honesty and genuiness, but in doing that, i had to implement rules and standards as a father, which she has never stood by me in.it is for this reason that i hate her with so much passion.i am not going to write what i have done for her and our son, because that would just mean i am looking for kudos, but i sit here now at 33 yeras old knowing that it was all done in vain.i will never get the respect or the gratefulness i feel i derserve, so i am ready to throw in the towel.

i just cant start explaining the problems, i just need others to know what i am going through with her and our son who is now 15.

momo786 momo786 31-35 10 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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I'm a man who loves my lady dearly. But she does not respect my wishes or concerns on real life .she has four grown kids, plus a very needy fam,and does all there life jobs for them. I always wonder when she and I will be able to have a life together . The grand children run around with no respect. She says nothing! and the parents are seeing it all and do nothing. I don't know if I should walk away. Or stay and die of stress. I love her so much. But all the extra nonsense is killing me. I feel used and worn down. I'm burnt out...............................

Divorced women wil beat you up with their spoiled brats no matter what. She will beat you with them and make you pay for the all the good training she gives them....until you get out of it

try to give your wife I sat down with what you expect from her and her family and tell her that it taking a toll of your life if she don\'t change within 3 to 6 months do what right for you it will only help you to live not die for her not caring Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect

This often happens with people in general who feel they have been let down. They are looking for someone to make it up to them and if they find a nurturing person they take advantage of them whether they realize it or not.

Ingrates are and always will be ingrates. My ex and her circle of relentless gold digger friends are the same way. They will never be satisfied, will work against men, plot and plan against men, squeeze men for money and laugh and talk and be amazed about how stupid their men are for putting up with it. I got out, twisted my arm in the trap for awhile but got out. Fortunately had no kids thanks to a vascectomy. Too bad you will probably end up hemmoraging money but sometimes it's worth it.

Can't live wit'em can't live without em.No matter what u do u will never please a woman point blank.Thats why in the bible u never hear anyone speak about a woman havn to deal with an annoying man just these evil and deceitful women who don't apprieciate ISH!!! Thats why the lord commands us to love our wives cause wit love its easier to deal wit someone u love and wit love helps u to look beyond their faults but with all dat being said he still wants us to live in peace so brother find ur happy place and good luck!!!

Can't live wit'em can't live without em.No matter what u do u will never please a woman point blank.Thats why in the bible u never hear anyone speak about a woman havn to deal with an annoying man just these evil and deceitful women who don't apprieciate ISH!!! Thats why the lord commands us to love our wives cause wit love its easier to deal wit someone u love and wit love helps u to look beyond their faults but with all dat being said he still wants us to live in peace so brother find ur happy place and good luck!!!

I made the mistake of taking on a wife that knows verbal abuse as though she invented it.

I have NO joy in my life, & she is ok with this. I'm sure many other men are in the same place

that I am. Unfortunatly, I don't have the luxury of leaving her behind, to find out how lucky she is..

I have nothing, and would leave her instantly, if I could...

The point is, I have the dream (or my wish come true) to give her everything and just walk out the door...

To never look back...

I have nothing anyway, and haven't had a good **** in over 20 years..

I'm sure that since you are at this page you have the same dream too...good luck to you....

I can kind of understand this. My father is the most ungrateful SOB ive ever met. My mother does at least 5X as much as him, and he just doesn't understand all that she sacrifices. But, we're here to talk about you... My opinion is that if the hatred between you and your spouse is as you say it is, then your children have obviously noticed. They know you can stand each other, and that it's an unhealthy relationship. Many kids WANT their parents to split because they know what their marriage is doing to them, but they never say anything because they think it isn't their place to talk. I would seriously entertain the thought of divorce, if things are really this bad.

I think the first two comments were from women, so that explains a lot. My friend, at 33 you still have excellent odds at rebooting your life. I recommend jotting down (in a secret place, maybe at work) some points or ideas about what your happy life would ideally be like. Kind of get a framework for the kind of life you'd *like* to have. Sleep on it, tighten up the list, then after a week start researching the divorce or whatever other steps are needed to get from where you are to that life you deserve. Good luck man!

Momo,

The prior comments were extremely gay and not real world ... "stop and think before doing anything rash", ... "once ive cooled off im fine" ... fn really??



For Sh$tt sakes, you've done the honorable thing and stood up being a dad. Not saying you were a good dad, (really don't know if you were a good dad or a sonavabitch) but the fact you've stuck in there for all these years is a testament that speaks volumes. So does sincere love (albeit, one sided).

Don't let a stupid teenager (all 15yrs old are pretty stupid at that age) or a stupid women (all b%$chy women at any age) deter you from doing the right thing.

Know that you may never get any gratitude in this lifetime ... but, for people like you, gratitude was never the motivating factor.

there is a fine line between love and hate. you must love her to have stayed with her for so long.do you only hate her because of the stance she has over her son and you?is it really worth throwing away 13 years together because of a child( who will not be a child for much longer)and who will be starting a life of his own in a few years and of course what kid ever listens to their parents they always do the opposite of what you want them to do. dont think im getting at you but really stop and think before you do anything rash.