Sick of Her **cking Nagging !!!!!

I lost my job due to downsizing and my wife, is on a constant pity party about how she has to "carry the load" and work all the time. I am hoping to take a job out of state and I am VERY happy about it ! I won't have to be here to listen to her *****, whine, nag, complain etc !! I will be FREE I am finding myself more and more gearing towards being there perm ! I will only come back to get the rest of my things which mean more to me than she EVER will !!!

I do nothing right in her eyes. She is NEVER happy unless she's blowing MY hard earned money on shoes ! We never have sex, and when we DID have it in the past, she would lay there like a lump of clay and act like I was bothering her, or some sort of ******* animal fulfilling a biological "need" It's always about "her" and her personal pity party ! I am completely miserable. I want out of this "marriage" so bad I can taste it ! I cannot stand to be around her anymore and I yearn and long for my freedom !! I WILL have it, and will be FAR away from her, and her looney *** dysfunctional family. I cannot enjoy my life while i'm here. I know it's not fair, but I hate women so bad because of my past experiences with them, that I could care less if I ever get laid again, or am ever around a female !

cyberfixture cyberfixture
41-45, M
9 Responses Aug 16, 2007

bass, you're right. The thing is, I have not seen anyone here blaming their wife as much as they are expressing what frustrates them about her.<br />
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Another thing you're conveniently not taking into consideration is that Western laws bind men to marriage and give incentive for women to leave.<br />
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Many of the guys here are just wanting to vent and others are trying to give vivid warnings to the still-single, that they can hopefully wake up and look around to see that these experiences aren't the exception, they're sadly and disgustingly the rule with Western women. ~60% marriages end in divorce, ~70% initiated by women, how many are miserable or failing? Surely many stay married because of oppressive laws, if not other reasons.

I always find it interesting when people put 100% of the blame for things being bad on their partner. YOU picked her right? Wait, don't tell me. Once you got married she changed......

hi, i'm really just curious, not trying to bug or offend.<br />
I am a woman and it seems like there are A LOT of unhappy married people (I've noticed in my own life). NO offence, just something noticed. I was just wondering why you married her in the first place? Like, when did you first know you hated her? When she walked down the aisle were you like, holy crap, what am I getting into? Do all the unhappily married people feel this but ignore it? Did you get married just to be cool, fit in, or was it like "could be worse", like I don't get it.

dear antiyou, I think you should go to the forum "I hate when men generalise about women"... I've read your comments and believe me, we don't come to this website to find people like you... we come here to find people like US. Do you hate your "wife"? no, right? then find another forum thanks!

'I know it's not fair, but I hate women so bad because of my past experiences with them'<br />
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how many woman have you been with inorder for you to be able to make that harsh assumption. and if you have been with a large amount of woman and it didnt work out, have you ever considered the idea 'what did i do wrong'. i dont know your whole story, but if you've been with as many woman as you have and that is a key part in you assumption as to why you hate all woman, then by all means you should wonder what may be wrong with you.

Yikes!

"I know it's not fair, but I hate women so bad because of my past experiences with them, that I could care less if I ever get laid again, or am ever around a female ! "<br />
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Man has needs no matter what side their playin on

What in this story made you think he's gay?

So your gay then? It's cool I have know a coulple gay guys.<br />
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But your prob right getting away from her would be a good thing for you to do. I would take my things when you go the first time.