I Have No Idea Wat to Do

I have been married to my wife for seven years. We have 3 beautiful children, 2 girls 1 boy. When we got married i told my wife i didn't believe in divorce and that i did believe in a house wife i work make money she takes care of the house kids and food. maybe these are not the right idea of marriage but this is how i grew up and learned from. I thought my wife understood how i felt. In the intrem we ran tight for money my parents help out alot. now here is the problem. my parents give us a ton of money, somewhere on the order of 3 thousand per month. my mom works like mad and so does my dad to keep my wife living the way she likes but my wife won't even respect them for it. she treats them like sh**. she says my parents do nothing for us. hello are u insane. my kids haven't seen my parents in 2 months but we only live 3 blocks away. my parents are heart broken they wanna see the kids but unless i take them my wife won't. my dad is a bit old school too, he really believes in respect and feels that my wife doesn't give him or my mom any. I really don't know what to do.

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3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

it's like a wives code to hate your family. and you are suposed to greet theirs with open arms every time they grace you with their unwanted presence.... all wives hate their mother-in- laws, they hate them worse than men do.. my only hope is that your son will get older and be forced to turn away for her so she can see how it feels.

Yes, you can do it. You'll do it or end up making your wife and kids miserable.

Look up how to be assertive, and become more assertive. Your stress levels will go down so much. You just might feel like a whole different person.<br />
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Oh, by the way is NOT your wife's job to take the kids to visit them. If you're not happy your kids don't see your parents take them! Do something about the problem your facing, instead of stewing in your hate juices.