Wife Wants to Move Now
I need some advice here. I bought a house out in the country what my wife wanted back in 1998. I worked my butt off over the years to pay this home off plus remodel it over the years. It is paid for and is very sweet, I get tons of compliments. My wife rarely ever helped me with any of the workd and actually was pissed off alot of times that I was doing a project. She never helped pay for this house I did with my paycheck, never her money. She also never helped pay for any of the work or materials to fix it up. I put thousands of hours and dollars into this place and now she hates it here after I finally pay it off and fixed it up. Talk about ungrateful. Im so pissed off and just bummed out. I worked so hard for nothing. She doesnt want to live in the country now and wants to move back to town. She even said she would downscale to a lesser home and keep the cash from this one after selling. I said theres no way in hell Im moving down in life when I dont have to and I dont owe anything on the home you wanted to begin with. We are 10 miles from the little town we grew up and I said you have a car if you want to go in town anytime you want. I just feel unappreciated and if I sell and buy a house in town I wont be happy there and just spent more money. My father still lives there and most her family do but we are only 10 miles out of town so its not like were far away. We have a little boy who is 5 and if I ask hime he says it doesnt matter to him where he lives. I just dont know what to do.